Father-in-law and daughter-in-law
Sumeet Verma
(Querist) 18 March 2014
This query is : Resolved
Hi,
My father mentally tortures and is abusive towards my wife. We have logged a police complaint where my father was warned by the inspector for any misbehaviour. He has mellowed down on the abuses post the report.
He now talks with neighbours and other society members and bad mouths about her.
He has also issued a public notice where he has falsely claimed about torture, harassment and also claims that she is trying to throw him out of the house taking help of my mother and me.
Please help and guide about my legal rights
Regards,
sumeet Verma
sumeetverma1978@gmail.com
sumeet.verma@hotmail.co.in
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SET 2
Thank you for your reply....
I have been staying with my father for over 35 years. He has indulged into wife beating and has had abusive beheaviour towards his wife, 4 daughters, a son (myself) and now my wife. I am married for over 7 years now.
Post 7 years of torture on suggestions from my mother and my 4 sisters we have registered our views with ht eborivali Police station. we were asked if we want my father jailed but as he is my father we asked for professional guidance and help instead of Jail for my father. Post which he has been relatively mellowed down towards my wife for sometime, hs mental torture and abusive beheaviour towards my mother remained unchanged.
Now he has resorted to defame all 3 of us in our society and now has issued a public notice in the newspapers. Request you to guide wih professional help.
Regards,
Sumeet Verma
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 18 March 2014
Better get separated. It is not good to lodge complaint against one's own father.
Have you ever tried to know whether you father faces any problem from your wife or not?
R.V.RAO
(Expert) 19 March 2014
abide by sri barman's advice.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 19 March 2014
Did you try to findout the reasons for your father to be abusive or just acting on the statement of your wife?
Go into the depth of issue and act.
It is absurd to involve neighbours, authorities or relatives in your personal matters. Resolve within house taking proper care and respect of your parents who brought you in this world.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 19 March 2014
Well advised by the experts, better start living separate to avoid such happening.
Sumeet Verma
(Querist) 19 March 2014
SET 2
Thank you for your reply....
I have been staying with my father for over 35 years. He has indulged into wife beating and has had abusive beheaviour towards his wife, 4 daughters, a son (myself) and now my wife. I am married for over 7 years now.
Post 7 years of torture on suggestions from my mother and my 4 sisters we have registered our views with ht eborivali Police station. we were asked if we want my father jailed but as he is my father we asked for professional guidance and help instead of Jail for my father. Post which he has been relatively mellowed down towards my wife for sometime, hs mental torture and abusive beheaviour towards my mother remained unchanged.
Now he has resorted to defame all 3 of us in our society and now has issued a public notice in the newspapers. Request you to guide wih professional help.
Regards,
Sumeet Verma
Sumeet Verma
(Querist) 19 March 2014
SET 2
Thank you for your reply....
I have been staying with my father for over 35 years. He has indulged into wife beating and has had abusive beheaviour towards his wife, 4 daughters, a son (myself) and now my wife. I am married for over 7 years now.
Post 7 years of torture on suggestions from my mother and my 4 sisters we have registered our views with ht eborivali Police station. we were asked if we want my father jailed but as he is my father we asked for professional guidance and help instead of Jail for my father. Post which he has been relatively mellowed down towards my wife for sometime, hs mental torture and abusive beheaviour towards my mother remained unchanged.
Now he has resorted to defame all 3 of us in our society and now has issued a public notice in the newspapers. Request you to guide wih professional help.
Regards,
Sumeet Verma
Isaac Gabriel
(Expert) 19 March 2014
35 years peaceful living is ok.But,when troubles started,you have to take right decision before it goes from bad to worse and out of hand.Separate living may bring change in his approach,due to the age fctor.
Sumeet Verma
(Querist) 19 March 2014
I was thrown out of the hose with my family and I stayed seperate for over 3 years. e called me to move back in, now he claims I have entered this house forcfully.
With disapointment, listening to your advice, I will soon seperate. This time my mother will come along.
Thank you !!!
Biswanath Roy
(Expert) 19 March 2014
Your father might have suffering from fabricated fearfulness and feeling insecured for some reason or other . He requires Counselling, you arrange for that.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 20 March 2014
As suggested by all experts, it is better to keep away from your notorious father because who knows what event will take place when during the joint living, to avoid further complications, better to get away from him to some other distant place.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 21 March 2014
Who is the Owner of the house u all reside??
certainly not u or ur wife or ur mother..
is ur wife working??
======= ur father must be Senior citizen??
y u come back in house; when duly separated in past for the reasons known to you??
after thought to do a !! motive behind???
Reply this and I can suggest you comfortable solution to ur problem.
root cause// intentions of concerned family members are imp.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 21 March 2014
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