Cruelty and aggressive behavior of wife
Rizul Choudhury
(Querist) 09 May 2014
This query is : Resolved
Hi
Im 32 year just got married 2 month back. I had a love marriage. it was a inter religion maiirage after 10 yrs of hardship to make our parent accept it. My wife met with an accident just 1 day before marriage. hence he has to sit at home for 2 month to rest before resuming her office.
and my mother in law staying with us to help her in day to day life as i stay alone as my family is in different state. My parent love her now too much and her parent love me. But suddenly her behaviour changed she is constantly abusing me day in and day out. not allowing me talk with my parent. she is abusing me in top of her voice everyday her mother used every mean to explace her not to behave like this. Every day insult me my religion, my family without any reason. if i say not to be aggressive this will hamper our relationship she threten me of commiting suicide or making my life hell. So day in and day out i'm keep mum and she abuse me like dog. Still i do whatever she ask. just to save from more aggreesive behaviour. Suggest what to do. Ive not said anything to my family about it so that ty didnt get dishearten and sad. Her mother console me everyday as she unable to make her understand that she is not doing right. but thing are going more worse day after day. Im in no mans land pls help what step i should take
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 09 May 2014
She needs counselling. Take her to marriage counsellor.
This is not legal dispute and hence do not contemplate of intervention of court of law.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 09 May 2014
there must be reasons for her sudden aggressive behaviour . you got married after 10 years of courtship . since her behaviour has changed suddenly better consult a psychatrist
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 09 May 2014
It is sudden change in her living style. Within a week, she broke leg/ married/ changed residence/ environment/ people, and could not manage to accommodate herself, or adjust her life.
If she wish to shift to her parent's home for a month, shift her there.
You keep away for a month from her
WAIT & WATCH.
ONLY ONCE A WEEK, VISIT, TALK NICELY FOR 30 MTS, PAY/ GIFT/ & COME BACK.
TAKE HER TO DR. [WITH HER FLY MEMBER, IF SHE AGREE. ]
Rizul Choudhury
(Querist) 09 May 2014
Thanks for the advice let hope thing go right. I'm unable to tolerate any more. I'm too human being have emotion don't knw when the silent will blast
for good trying to be silent. Hv tried with more care/time/gift/travel.. cooking... hv compromised my needs for her. Nothing fruitful. Let see if I can take her to psychiatrist in someway or other. Or divorce will be only option left which is really bad.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 09 May 2014
always try to save your marriage . go for divorce as last resort
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 09 May 2014
It is your shot and you have tto take decision.
We have already advised adn nothing to add more.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 10 May 2014
Not a legal query consult a psychiartist or counsellor
K.K.Ganguly
(Expert) 10 May 2014
1. This appears to be psychological problem,
2. It is good that you have her mother in your favour,
3. Consult a psychiatrist at the earliest,
4. Handle the matter with utmost care.
ABDUL RAZIQUE
(Expert) 12 May 2014
There is no legal battle between you and your wife, i shocked to read that your wife became aggressive and you fail to understand the cause of her aggressiveness, how you love to her, try to understand her wish, politely talk with her and try to create a joyful environment.
however next step is well discussed by our experts. Nothing more to add.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 10 May 2014
