Want to save our marriage
somesh
(Querist) 31 July 2013
This query is : Resolved
Dear Experts,
i want to know whether filing RCR better option if my wife is ready to come back to me and her parents denying?
I have taken my wife into confidence that i would take harsh action if your parents keeps their ego up(but not told anything about filing RCR or any kind of action to be taken), and she confirmed me that she will stand by me do whatever i can.
Her parents has told me that on 20th aug they will send her back to me but while speaking to them over fone their attitude is bit different (means not speaking properly jaise koi parvah nahi hai) even girl says that they will not stand by their words.
Now, should i wait for the date mentioned and file RCR or should i wait until they act on.
Please advice i have taken a headache marrying myself jaise koi gunah kar lia ho.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 31 July 2013
Somesh, Wait for a month
Avoid Litigation for a month, otherwise WAR will start and a wife have many weapons like DV, 498A , 125, and RCR will delay or reduce opportunity to settle peacefully.
So simple keep cool, wait and watch.
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 31 July 2013
why wait for 20/8/13 . contact ur wife and bring her back when she is ready for it.her parents cannot do anything.
somesh
(Querist) 31 July 2013
Dear Sir,
I did so but her mom straight away denied to send her back. then i asked her to pack her bags and she did so when we were above to leave, her mom said her that if she goes against her she will die on the spot.
Then, later on they decided and gave me this date but i know the ultimate result which would be a big NO.
thanks
Nadeem Qureshi
(Expert) 31 July 2013
future is uncertain, wait and watch, litigation option is always open
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 31 July 2013
You should wait and remind them their words.Meanwhile try to win confidence of your mother in law if possible.
Adv Archana Deshmukh
(Expert) 31 July 2013
Yes, wait for the given date, then remind them about it, you can take the mediation of some relatives who will convince your in-laws to send back your wife. And if nothing works then file an RCR.
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 31 July 2013
take ur wife in ur confidence during the said period upto 20/8/13 and then after it bring her back .
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 31 July 2013
While advices are okay the query smells repeated-the same DOMINATING MOTHER IN LAW!
Is not this true?
somesh
(Querist) 02 August 2013
Dear experts,
Now my parents and relatives are against her family and clearly asked me not to bring her unless her relatives talk to us or they on their own send or leave her at our place.
I am totally crushed between grudges of our relatives dont know what to do where to go.
Please help.
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 02 August 2013
wife is urs so bring her back and ignore relatives.
when miyan biwi razi to kya karein gein relatives.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 02 August 2013
u said "I am totally crushed between grudges of our relatives dont know what to do where to go."
That's why suggested to cool down, It will take some time to settle, and understand each other. do not initiate legal procedure.
Also do not react if she start. [ Ego on both sides is like ENO, and settle down the burning effects soon. ]
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 07 September 2013
Facts are scattered on several threads :-
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/want-to-save-our-marriage-411886.asp#.UitCqX_Qzmk
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/laws-for-harassed-husbands-387421.asp#.UitCt3_Qzmk
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/want-to-bring-my-wife-back-410526.asp#.UitCr3_Qzmk
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/want-to-bring-my-wife-back-403956.asp#.UitCs3_Qzmk
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/planning-to-file-rcr-415581.asp#.UitCpH_Qzmk
It would have been in your interest of have all facts in one place so that the experts do not have to spy around for facts of the case and you get complete advise at one thread.
You have got enough advise if you really intend to save marriage then go ahead.
