Lgeal threat by wife
R.K. SHARMA
(Querist) 03 June 2015
This query is : Resolved
Dear Sir/Madam,
i am very upset about my wife behavior and legal threat of filling the false cases if i don't walk on her track. she is completely handed glove by her father and controlled by her father , her father is a uncivilized / eccentric having rude behavior. my father has done this marriage without any single penny from her father.
i was got married in 2004 from kanpur, her father has been using her as a weapon against me and our family since i got married.
her father wanted to use us for their financial benefit. in 2008 i sent my wife to her parents visit,when i gone there to take her back, her father had abused me fought us denied to sent her back with me and filled 125 crpc against me , this came to my knowledge after eight month, i had filled sec 9 RCR, after fighting two years , she has come to me, and in the date hearing in RCR case her father has again use her as a weapon and filled a false 498a against me and my family in 2011 but after investigation by I.O it is found bogus and I.O has not arrest any family member of us . after seeing this she has filled and compromise affidavit in police station stating that she had filled 498a in irritation and she wants to live with me.
after all this episode i don't want to send her in her parents home because of fear of legal threat and conspiracy against me,
but now she is saying that if i don't let her go to her parent's home, she will again do something to threat me.
i am very depress about this. i have two children 9 and 7 years both are boys.
i m very worried about my children's future. what should i do? pls guide.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 03 June 2015
This is more of a personal problem than a legal one . You have no legal recourse to resolve this problem. You have to make her understand the necessity of united and family life. more so, for the 2 children.
Guest
(Expert) 03 June 2015
Develop mutual trust between husband and wife, may be with the help of elders or through some coumseller, so that your father may not be able to use your wife as a weapon, as you allege.
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 03 June 2015
Mr.Sharma,
UR problem does not constitute legal solution.It is strictly a family affair and can be sorted out without too many hurdles.The contents of UR query are most common in many households,which can be rectified through proper understanding and counselling.
Hence instead of searching for legal advises,better involve elders and well wishers of both the families and sort out everything for an amicable solution and better life in future.
Biswanath Roy
(Expert) 13 June 2015
Before sending her to parents' house you collect a written declaration from her in her own hand writing that she is going to visit her father and mother according to her own and she has no complaint against you and your family members about any harassment , cruelty or ill treatment of any kind till this date of her departure.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 21 June 2015
You may allow her to visit her parents house but make her realise that if she ventures into the same old dirty tricks to harass you, this time she will be permanently in her parents house itself, this fear will make her to behave properly.
