Maratial problem
Rohit
(Querist) 23 June 2015
This query is : Resolved
I have married on 28 jan 13 . Since the very first day my inlaws use to interfare in our family issues . Now as last july my mother had a stroke and is in coma for almost a year . The very next day of my mothers stroke my in laws started mind washing my wife as how will she manage all alone . Due which she started behaving roughly . On september 2014 we came to know that my wife is a month pregnant . After this her mom created a issue on silly talk take place a home between me and my wife . And took her back to her home at mumbai . We stay at jabalpur m.p . As she went for mumbai before this she also ranned from house and got the ticket for mumbai without telling anyone at home . Some how i managed to get her back . As she went mumbai she switched off her cell and none of my inlaws also recieved our call .after a long series of phone calls and messages the managed to answer . The answer was she dont want to come back to ur home and she need space . I also felt and gave her space . After that some how i managed and tried to get thing to normal . Last april v were blessed with a boy i was der at her place . Then again her mother created a issue . Now its 2 months i havent seen my baby . We do call them but they dont even pic our phone call nor do they reply . By mistake once call was recieved by her mom and she told us now she will not b going to come back and u can stay like this as long as u want . They dont even duscuss what the problem is and not even say what they want. I feel.and want her back . Please tell me as what should i do ..
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 23 June 2015
someone will advise you to file RCR case to call her.
This step is tested tool to provoke wife and her parents to file criminal case of 498a (true / false) against whole family.
Seek amicable solution. Analyse how/why things gone so bad and how you were responsible for the same.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 23 June 2015
Try to have amicable solution with the help of relatives, common friends and effective people of the society. Any case would do irreparable loss and would spoil life including new born.
P. Venu
(Expert) 23 June 2015
Law suggests Restitution of Conjugal Rights (RCR) to be the effective remedy.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 23 June 2015
If you file RCR then your wife has to justify her absence and she has no choice but to file DV 498a case (may be true/false).
This forum is full of such cases.
do not try to be one such case.
Rohit
(Querist) 24 June 2015
Ok sudhir ji .. as per u i should go for amicable solution ..
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 25 June 2015
@ Rohit,
1. Do not use SMS language on net.
2. Did you try to find out your wife and baby as to how and where they are residing and managing their day-to-day life? What are the intentions of your wife towards your marital life and how she intended to proceed further in matrimonial behaviour? Shall she continue her present behavior? Does she intend to seek divorce or harass you and your family?
3. Rope in 'some' common friend, relative, counselor or influential/respectable person to help you out of such dilemma.
4. Contact, consult and engage a local lawyer for proper advise and proceeding in a professional manner.
Rohit
(Querist) 25 June 2015
As for last 6 months either me or one of my family member every month visit her place . We try to know there views and try to solve but her mom gets aggresive and dont even say what she want to be changed . And my wife says to get her mom in confidance . And her mother is so aggresive that none of their family members interfere in their issue .
I find my self helpless as what to do .whome to say to interfere and get the matter solved.
