Divorce
sreekanth
(Querist) 29 January 2016
This query is : Resolved
Subject : Divorce
Message :
Hi madam, I am married since 2011, it was love marriage one side she proposed but my fault to accept and marry her within a week of proposal without knowing her properly. Same minitue after after marriage I realised i should not have done since I had an affair already , we had some small fight and where not communicating , in that gap only she proposed, but I could not share me to any one except my GF i realised this strongly.So i did not live a married life even for a day, she knows all this that I have an affair she even shaid she knows about that. I used to ask why did she marry me then.she had no answer. she did all detective work getting my papers, mobile messages ect and threaten staying would inform my GF. I was afraid to disclose this to my GF as she was waiting for me all these years again my fault should have told her about my wedding. Was afraid if she does something destructive to herself(almost 7 years relationship). My wife used to abusive to the core made me stand naked even I did everything because of threat, she used to drik vomit i used to clean, this i reported to her mother whom she respects but she says will send her to yoga class ect. i had been underging this tortoure for 4 years atlast decided to come out of it and started to stay separately in US last year even before that out of 4 years I hardly stayed with her say only for 1 and half years other wise used to to US or China just to escape from her.She always sends mail only mode of communication threatening to get her visa or will will inform my GF so got her visa she came on 23 may 2015 to US and stayed till 27 Oct 2015, and one day force fully raped me threatending same , after that i had no physical relationship. Any how she went and I never contacted even now nor did i do before.I changed my maild id in which she was communicating to avoid her.she used to say this is not working out so will go mutually this even her mother said so this is one of the reason I waited patientely, for mutual.when Initially i refused to get visa but her mother told this would be last try if does not work will leave silently, so got visa. i was supposed to file for divorce,called if they will come for mutual separation they are saying she is pregnant and if i file also they are not bothered i dont know if it is true even.i have got mails written by her stating not even one day it was peaceful and it was a married life. But I cannot live with her any more I am under mental stress and i am suffering to to core as she is suspicious she connects even with 13 year old kid when should I file divorce wnd want your suggestion.
rajagopal.s
(Expert) 29 January 2016
Hi
It appears to be lengthy rationale.
Currently are you in USA or India.
If you are so fed up of your marriage, then you should go ahead and file for a divorce. you need to have the courage and conviction to annul the marriage. Once you take a decision you can contact us.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 30 January 2016
You have done a good job by keeping your GF in dark and marrying with another girl. Also keeping your GF in dark for years regarding your marriage and continued contact with her . You married happily and just by saying it was your mistake want to go away from responsibility.
You have spoiled the life of your GF and wife for no fault of theirs, have not given your wife due rights of wife because you did not want to loose your GF.
Spoiling your present for uncertain future.
The workable solution is amicable settlement and mutual consent divorce.
If you both are staying in USA from last 6 months in one state, file divorce there, it would be easy but bit costly to get divorce there. In most of the states in USA there exist phenomenon of no fault divorce.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 30 January 2016
YOU MUST FORGET PAST. ENJOY YOUR LIFE WITH YOUR WIFE.
MUST FORGET GF :TELL HER TO FORGET YOU.
MARRIAGE IS MORE IMPORTANT.
DON'T BE TOO SELFISH & SPOIL OTHER'S LIFE.
ONCE MARRIED, AND WIFE IS SO SO CO-OPERATIVE TO FORGIVE YOUR AFFAIRS AND RAPED YOU, SHE WON. YOU MUST LOOSE AGAINST HER.
ANY RELATION OR CONTACT WITH GF IS AGAINST MORALITY, A MATRIMONIAL OFFENCE AND ILLEGAL.
BE LEGAL, RELIGIOUS & ROYAL. [ TAKE IT AS YOUR OWN PUNISHMENT OR PLEASURE! IT IS UP TO YOU, BUT BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR WIFE.....
sreekanth
(Querist) 30 January 2016
Sir
Please need legal assistance on the case
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 30 January 2016
FORGET LAW:
YOU WILL BE HAPPY THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE, IF FOLLOW MY ADVISE.
OTHERWISE YOU WILL COMPLICATE LIFE OF SO MANY INNOCENT PERSONS.
YOU CHEATED YOU WIFE/ YOUR GF/
YOU CANNOT GET DIVORCE EASILY .
YOU WILL WASTE MANY GOLDEN YEARS OF YOUR LIFE, AND LOOSE CARING WIFE TOO.
AND WILL YOUR GF NOT TAKE REVENGE??
EVEN IF YOU MARRY HER AFTER FEW YEARS???
YOU WILL BURN YOUR CANDLE FROM BOTH ENDS,, NO HOPE... SORRY TO HURT YOU, BUT LAWS ARE NOT IN YOUR FAVOUR, NOR RELIGION, NOR JUSTICE...
sreekanth
(Querist) 30 January 2016
Sir I never disclosed I will marry my GF , but I can never live with my wife the mental stress and agony I had been God knows
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 30 January 2016
IS HER NATURE BAD? DO SHE HATE YOU?? OR ONLY YOU HATE HER??
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 30 January 2016
THERE ARE MEANS AND WAYS, BUT UNETHICAL..........
sreekanth
(Querist) 30 January 2016
Her nature is bad suspicious abusive ,drinks even made me stand nu.... Whole night runs away midnight threatens to commit sucide write my name as reasons I never had proper food or sleep there are lot more . It has not been decided over nite but waited for 5 years have told her mother she use to say will put in yoga class and treat her talks abusive if I talk to a girl child 12 years old girl child
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 30 January 2016
SO
YOU DON'T LIKE YOUR WIFE..
FINE
FILE PETITION FOR DIVORCE..
KEEP AWAY FROM HER..
FILE POLICE COMP SHE THREAT YOU OF SUICIDE ETC AND MENTALLY HARASS YOU.
YOU CAN EVEN ENTER INTO RELATIONSHIP AND CONTINUE HAPPY LIFE WHILE WAITING FOR DIVORCE.
PREPARE TO PAY HER ALIMONY. AND music of DV/ 498A, 125 cr pc etc// part of life..........
sreekanth
(Querist) 01 February 2016
Sir please help under what reason can i file for divorce
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 01 February 2016
ONCE YOU EXPLAIN IN PERSON TO YOUR LOCAL ADVOCATE, HE WILL MANAGE..............
