HMA sec.9

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 11 October 2016 This query is : Resolved
I'm working as asst professor at a Delhi College and my husband working as Legal Advisor cum Team Lead in a pvt hospital in Chandigarh . Before marriage I was told that he may have to go to Africa for his business purpose for a month.Therefore,it was clearly agreed between us that I will not leave my job for Africa and that I will stay with him at his place in Chandigarh if he gets me equally respectable job there. Soon a marriage, he started ignoring me. Its been 9 months till now and he made no efforts to secure my job in Chandigarh.However in the meantime I still visited his place whenever I got leave from my college.During these times he argued thrice with me on my refusal to leave my job and to stay with him in Africa and he hardly stayed with me for a month in total. Now for the past 3 months,he and his entire family blocked my ( as well as my entire family 's) numbers. In the meantime he filed RCR against me without any warning/ informal notice to me.I didn't go on Ist hearing but contacted one of his near aunt to know whether he would allow me to enter if I go there before the date of hearing on which she told me that his (rented) house is locked and kept silent on asking whether it will be locked on date of hearing too. Therefore ,Is it a ryt decision to go at his place before the next date of hearing,since none of them are ready to tell what's there in his mind.I want to stay with him but not at the cost of losing my job for him since his behaviour is suspicious.

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Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 11 October 2016
Sorry to mention that the job of the woman in above problem is also a pvt one.

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 11 October 2016
Further, the job of the woman is also a private one in the above query.

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 11 October 2016
Also please suggest, what should be my next step in case my husband including my In -laws don't allow me to enter or ignore me after I reach my matrimonial house , Chandigarh?