Mutual consent divorce

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Anonymous
(Querist) 02 August 2017
This query is : Resolved
Respected Sir / Madam,
My name is Ranjan. I married with Sukhda on 05/01/2017. She agreed to stay at Joint Family & support financially to me & her parents as well. However, she has 2 sisters & 1brother who is staying abroad with his wife. He never helps his family financially. Since Sukhada is elder daughter. She has taken her family responsibility on her shoulder. Her younger sister got married before sukhada 2 years before. But she is also not contributing anything. Sukhada told me that she has flat & will pay EMI for the same which I agreed. After marriage, I came to know that she had done Will deed of flat on her parents name without my consent. Post her parents death; the same flat will get transferred to her younger sister’s name that is married but dumb since birth. Her husband is also too dumb. Both are working and earning money.
I was not aware that the same flat is going to be transferred on her dumb sister’s name which is unfair and cheating to me. Since she is married, her total responsibility would be her in laws if I am not wrong. This dumb couple s too having normal baby girl.
Sukhada is behaving with my family like an enemy. One day even she asked to my sister to write your earnings & bank balance on piece of paper which is not right since our parents are still alive. Hence, I also asked her parents about monetary contribution of each child at their home. They never liked what I asked. Now sukhada sent a divorce notice stating she want a divorce on mutual consent with the amount Rs. 43,000/- claimed what she spends during stay with us.
She had refused for sexual relation & not ready for child planning.
My query is that:
1) If she is claiming above amount, can’t we claim our money which we spent on her food & other medication expense?
2) She had harassed my family very much. Can’t we file a case on Mental Cruelty?
3) She is asking for divorce on mutual consent, we are not. Can we file a case for defamation against her?
4) Can she claim anything from my property & vice versa (i.e. can I claim to in her property).
5) What she can claim & what I can claim?
6) I also want to give her divorce but not in easy way
Kindly advise on above.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 02 August 2017
No reply to query from an author who is anonymous.
You can post the query in fresh thread with your identity and material facts.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 03 August 2017
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Kumar Doab
(Expert) 03 August 2017
Pls post with your ID..................
J K Agrawal
(Expert) 03 August 2017
Dear Friends.
If on this site there is a provision of anonymous posting, one can avail it. The right way is to request the site owner to remove this facility. As long as the system is there, one can use it rightfully. It is up to us that we answer or not. If it appears a genuine problem, I favor to answer. Specially when it is matrimonial dispute, one like to hide his identity. It is not bad at all.
So far as query of Mr. Ranjan, He should know that after marriage, he has no legal right over of income of his wife and she can spend that any way she like, however wife can claim maintenance from income of husband. I do not understand that it was marriage between you both or it was a business deal? Marriage is something different. If your wife want to support her parents, she is on right way. If she want to support her younger sister who is deaf and dumb, she is honorable also. Just decide one question. You want a wife or a source of income? The both will vanish after divorce. You are great that you identified your wife within 5 month of marriage. I am still trying to understand and evaluate my wife after 25 years of marriage. When she says "Yes" it was meant 'No' and when she say that she is not hungry means she is hungry.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 03 August 2017
Dear Mr. J.K.Agarwal,
The query of Ranjan has been responded in other thread....
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 03 August 2017
Same Query:
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/Need-assistance-urgently-649856.asp
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 03 August 2017
Dear Mr. J.K.Agarwal,
I appreciate your comments in 2nd para of your post.