Verbal abuse and blackmailing
anna
(Querist) 11 March 2013
This query is : Resolved
I appreciate d support and help that this site is providing to the people who doesn't have the knowledge about the frame work of our indian laws and regulations.
Anyways back to the point my bestfriend whom I know from past 8yrs was in a relationship with a guy. She thought was pretty serious ending her to fall for the demands of her bf n resulting in havng sex. However her bf has made tapes of that and now when she was tobreak up with him for his irrational behaviour, obsessive n doubting nature and no seriousness towards future. He has started to blackmail her saying that he will publish these vids and also he is threatening her, verbally abusive towards her and has given an ultimatum to her to commit suicide herself. However she is scared of hurting her family's reputation and her mother's fragile health. She does not want all this to become public because she has a sister who is of a marriageable age. So I would like to request u all on behalf of her to advice a solution which is legal and can sabotage his actions.
Thank u
Anna
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 11 March 2013
If she does not want it public then no criminal action may be practical possible.
Jab Pap kee gathree sis dharee fir shees pakar kyon rowat hai
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 11 March 2013
If you yourself are victim i can understand your need to appear here as friend of the victim.
But if you are really friend of the victim,i have several complaints against you as she must have shared you things right from beginning but you allowed her to sink and when she has sunk you have come for her rescue before us to let her come out of the situation through law that too with a CONDITIONAL CLAUSE"She does not want all this to become public because she has a sister who is of a marriageable age. "
About secret there is only one rule and that is "you are master of your secret till you keep it within your self"
As regards to any kind of help i or any other one among us shall suggest would be legal only,then implementation of law goes
through administration and judicial system which are public and the moment you visit,the information or fact you want to keep secret becomes public.Then for those who give priority to secrecy there is no harm to let the "rape" going on against such blackmails.
So either be brave to come out of this situation legally by deciding to charge him of offences the rascal has committed by filing an F.I.R in police station;
OR
Be brave and do not fear ,he can not publish those stuffs as he is threatening.Do not allow him to rape your friend any more.Do not submit to his demands against his threatening;
OR
Let the going go as it is going.
After all it is choice of victim.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 11 March 2013
This is a case of extortion and criminal intimidation. So file a case under relevant sections of law. These are non bailable offence for which the girl need to lodge complaint first.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 11 March 2013
I do endorse the common views of the experts.
anna
(Querist) 12 March 2013
Thanks for all your comments respected experts.
And as of letting her to sink this level I did not have any deeper information regarding her issue for sometime but after some confrontation she did trust me and confessed to me of all details of her personal problems that is in her relationship.
And as prabhakar sir has explained at the end she has to decide what step she can take against him.
Thank you all once again
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 12 March 2013
As she has confessed her guilt, it is better to now make the relationship normal.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 12 March 2013
It is she who has to decide whether the matter is to be kept secret from society or brought to the court.
