Wife resisting divorce to gain more money...
Ajey
(Querist) 16 April 2012
This query is : Resolved
Dear Sir,
I got married in the month of May 2010. Since the day 1 my wife did not allow any sort of relation ship with her. Every week, she and her parents always forced me to drop her at her fathers residence, failing to do so, her parents called my parents and used to insult and use bad words. This continued for a period of 4 months. During this period a person approached me and provided me the some emails that my wife had written to some person before marriage. The emails revealed all works like she loves him and misses him...
I did not tell anything about the prints to my wife as she always used to threaten me that she would attempt suicide and get the blame on me and my parents. She felt my house in the month of Oct and then came back in early Dec.
She now allowed to have physical relationship and every thing seems to be working fine.
Later her parents started to interfere in out house... My wife and her parents always used to insult my parents and threatened me to get separated from my parents. I did not let this happen.
I and my wife were planning to have a baby... sometimes in the month of April I found that she without my consent was consuming birth control pills.
I tried to ask her several times about her relationship in past and birth pills and why she frequently wanted to be at her old residence to which she always threatened me that she would do something to her self.
I tried to get intouch with her parents, but they too ill treated me.
In the month of May 2011, when I argued about the pills and her behavior, she left the house and was about to jump of the terrace. I somehow manged to hold her and get her back to home and informed her parents about the incidence, they brought the local police at our house late in the midnight and took her away saying that she would return after 3 - 4 days.
When she did not return even after a month, then I gave a written application to the police narrating the incidence. Following the application, she was called at the police station. She tried to put false complaint against me and my parents, but it was contradicting to the statements that she told when she left with her parents earlier.
We including our parents decided that we would not get into any arguments and setting this separation in Family court. She then came to our house and took all the ornaments, clothes and book with her.
She then gave a false application in Crime Against Women cell with all false allegations. I presented my self there and explained the things. I clearly mentioned that I would seek divorce from her and cannot think of getting her back. She admitted in front of the police / Councillors that she under her parents consideration gave the false application. Which Councillors asked should be closed.
I then filed for the divorce. My wife is now planning to file a false DV case against me seeking a separate residence and huge maintenance.
Now there is mediation round at the court in progress where she is making false allegations against me and my parents and saying that she won;t agree for divorce.
I am sure that my wife is not interested to stay, even if she comes back she will file a false complaint again. Can you please help me what I should be doing further?
adv. rajeev ( rajoo )
(Expert) 16 April 2012
If she is not willing to live with you, why don't you go for consent divorce?
ajay sethi
(Expert) 16 April 2012
you have to contest the case. use the emails she addressed to her ex lover. it will help you in oyur divorce case too . your lawyer will guide you .
Deepak Nair
(Expert) 16 April 2012
You have already filed the petition for divorce. Contest the same with all might. She may ask for anything.
You have the evidences such as the statements given to police, woman cell etc which shows that she tried to implicate you falsely on the behest of her parents. Don't worry. Your advocate will take care of the rest.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 16 April 2012
This is a matter of mutual consent. If your wife is not agree upon a particular amount, try to increase it and make her ready to come to a particular mutually agreed amount. It is clear that unless you are freed from her, you can also not marry and thus matter shall prolong for the years and years.
It is a wise step to settle the issues with mutual consent.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 16 April 2012
Though it is always wise to settle for MCD, sometimes filing a contested divorce and pursuing it can not be avoided.
Pursue your case with vigor, keeping the options open for MCD in between.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
