Cheating and fraud

Anjani (Querist) 27 August 2013 This query is : Resolved
I'm a CEO of a company and a well educated professional. I was in relationship with a man for 6 years. We did not meet frequently but we were constantly on the phone. Sometimes to an extent of 13-14 calls a day. We did have a physical relationship though not proper intercourse. After 6 years i discovered that he is a married man. He has a wife who is illeterate and he comes from a fuedal set up and is torn between his children and me. He lacks guts to take initiative of divorcing his wife. This has distressed me emotionally to an extent that i feed like committing sucide. What legal action can i take and is it punishable.

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Guest (Expert) 27 August 2013
It matters, if you have any sound proof of cheating and fraud against that person.

Anjani (Querist) 27 August 2013
We have common friends associates who knew that he was married. There are several records of phone calls over the years. Most late in the evening or night. Can those be taken as proof.My staff though he was unmarried. Going by today's scenario it would like a small thing but think of 6 years of cheating and lying. It is indeed emotionally traumatic and such people without consicience in our society need to be punished.

V R SHROFF (Expert) 27 August 2013
Anjani,

A CEO of Company and well educated professional must check any hazards. You failed to notice such a important matter of your personal life for 6 years!!!
If you will act so carelessly for managing ur company, it will incur huge Loss.

Your action will affect children, his wife, you and him all. So forget a married man.
Go to his house, talk to his wife and children and his parents and neighbour. It is the best punishment to him. You should have that courage.
U will never suicide, so forget it.

Your duty to safeguard yourself.
prevention is better than cure.

Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 27 August 2013
You were negligent in investigating back ground of a person with whom you had friendship since 6 years specially when you are a CEO.

Accept honestly and in spite of further deepening and digging all this filthy affair, try to forget all this and start again your life with more experience and confidence.