Legal consequences for revealing my premarital affiar with ex lover to her husband
vicky523624
(Querist) 09 January 2015
This query is : Resolved
I was sincerely in love with my ex gf for almost 3.5 years. I didn't even had real sex with her expect oral, expected a very good first night after marriage.
But things changed and she cheated me for a wealthy guy and married him.
I am hating her now for her unethical act. I want to reveal about her real character in front of her husband and his family? Will that leads any legal consequences to me?
Consider the guy family is somewhat moral. Where as the girls family members all are culprits and cheats, they know her relationship with me before her marriage only.
Isaac Gabriel
(Expert) 10 January 2015
What kind of relief or advantage you will get by revealing?It may land in adverse action.
Guest
(Expert) 10 January 2015
Dear author,Just forget the Past as Bad Dreams and Proceed in Life with Success.Your Mentioned Intentions are Not Advisable.
Advocate. Arunagiri
(Expert) 10 January 2015
It is not necessary to love and marry the same person. It depends upon the mood and emotion which decides.
When you dont have better understanding, forget about her. If you start taking revenge on her, she may also do the same to you.
If you want peace, forget about the past.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 10 January 2015
Forget her and move ahead in your life. Agree with the expert Arunagiri ji.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 10 January 2015
forget your ex gf and move on in life . by informing her ex husband you will ruin her married life and your ex gf will then file counter cases against you
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 10 January 2015
Sorry I can not advise or support your vengeful acts.
You are equally roviy to the acts and can not now take advantage of the same to her disadvantage.
Be a real man and move on in life. There is no dearth of more greener pasture outside.
Guest
(Expert) 10 January 2015
Mr. Vicky,
This is not your legal problem, rather shows your bad motive to take revenge from your ex-gf.
You had already been advised by the experts two months back not to adopt revengeful attitude and forget the past. But still you seem to have not changed your attitude. If you are so adament, you may better try your luck to be ready to face the consequences. If you try to ruin her married life, you should also not expect that she or her husband would keep quiet and spare you for your blackmailing tactics.
Don't forget, if you got cheated by her even after keeping relations for 3.5 years, she must be having more brain power than you to be able to pay you back in more severe terms. If you failed for 3.5 years to realise her motives behind her relations with you and followed her like an idiot, it can be treated as your fault only.
Moreover, you should also be aware that experts here do not provide free service to help people like you to encourage them taking revenge from others. Why they should be expected to help people with bad motives?
Guest
(Expert) 10 January 2015
Well advised by Senior Expert Mr.P.S.Dhingra More over the younger generations are also very honest and they will not be hesitant to disclose the facts to their Partners in marriage.You will be landing your self in Soup with your immoral and destructive attempts.
Guest
(Expert) 10 January 2015
Dear N.J.S. Rajkumar,
Thanks for your appreciation.
vicky523624
(Querist) 10 January 2015
Dear Experts,
Thank you for your valuable suggestions. But here my question is different. I am not saying that i will definitely attempt the task that revealing the matter to her husband. But i am asking if that is happened what might be the legal effects may arise to me.
My major concern is that as she is my inter-relative family member and most of my relatives are known this fact and majority of them agrees her fault. So there may be a high chance that her husband will going to know the truth in near future. In that case if that person come to me and asks about truth, i don't have other choice. I have to tell the truth. In that case, is she or her family can able to proceed any legal action against me?
Guest
(Expert) 10 January 2015
What it means to say earlier in your query, "I want to reveal about her real character in front of her husband," if you now say, "I am not saying that i will definitely attempt the task that revealing the matter to her husband"?
Guest
(Expert) 10 January 2015
Dear Author,Please Do reply the Question of Our Senior Expert Mr.P.S.Dhingra
vicky523624
(Querist) 10 January 2015
Either way it is same. If that guy comes to me, or if i am going to his place. Ultimate result is to reveal her character. So i kept that question considering only on revealing matter part.Sorry if you misunderstood.
Guest
(Expert) 10 January 2015
Dear author,Now Please Read all the Replies From the Beginning.
vicky523624
(Querist) 10 January 2015
@ N.J.S.Rajkumar alias narasimha , Sorry sir,I didn't get you what exactly you are saying.
Guest
(Expert) 10 January 2015
Dear Author,The Issue had been sufficiently Explained already by all the Experts.
Guest
(Expert) 10 January 2015
Mr. Vicky,
Presently, you don't have any problem. When any problem arises on your revealing the character of that gf by yourself or on asking by her husband, only come here with description of your real problem that be at that time than posing a hypothetical problem now.
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 10 January 2015
Not a legal problem. We are not here to support the acts of revenge or vengeance. Still experts advised you properly. It is for you to decide either to go ahead and face the consequences or to lead a peaceful life.
H.M.Patnaik
(Expert) 11 January 2015
THe does not merit further discussion .
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 11 January 2015
I fully agree with expert Sh. Dhingra, there is no room to add.
@Vicky,
You have adequatly been advised by the experts FREE OF COST, now it is you to decide the way you want to reveal or disclose your failure story qua your ex girl friend and face the consequency.
Stop this thread, enough is enough.
Contact, consult and engage a local lawyer and proceed in a professional manner, sucess awaits you.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 14 January 2015
You create a problem yourself by indulging in the vengeful act and then if you face problem, you may visit this portal seeking solutions/suggestions.
vicky523624
(Querist) 13 February 2015
Dear Experts,
My doubt has came in to action now. As i said before, Somehow the guy who married her came to know about this matter and contacted me. But he is playing differently. Sorry for the long discussion, i want to tell u whole story happened for your best suggestions.
3 days before her marriage i came to the know the guy name (But not the person who exactly). So i tried to contact him through FB in that frustration mood. I contacted eight guys who has that name by message "Please contact me i want to talk to you personally". But none of them are replied. After marriage i came to the guy who exactly, but i left and didn't contacted him. Because marriage is over.
Now yesterday suddenly this guy replied and asked me to tell me what u want to say. I tried to avoid the discussion, but that was not happened. I gave my no and he called me. His approach is like he don't know me. But his intention seems something he came to know at his place, to confirm that he called me.
In an anger mode i told him the truth. after that i don't know what exactly happened there. But now girls parents harassing my family members saying that i only called and told him and harassing my daughter, we will go to police station..etc.etc. After this many days even i am also left her and getting busy in my regular activities. But still the problem reiterates.
Please suggest me know how to handle the situation.
