Wife not interested in physical relation
SATINDER
(Querist) 21 June 2016
This query is : Resolved
My query is about husband-wife relation as per Hindu religion/law where wife is willfully not interested in having physical relation with her husband, which has become a cause of mental trauma for a husband. under such circumstance what remedies are available for husband, especially when wife is not having any physical or mental disorder and do not want to have physical relation with her husband. What if this situation is for a long period and there is no change in wife's behaviour.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 21 June 2016
Refusal to sex is a gross mental cruelty and hence divorce can be granted on this ground alone.
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 21 June 2016
File divorce petition in court against wife on ground of mental creuty as marriage without sex is curse.
SATINDER
(Querist) 21 June 2016
Thanks for reply. Here I want to add some facts: Couples are having minor kids. Marriage is more than 15 years and wife not willing for divorce. Mutual talks were tried and wife refused for divorce. For the sake of children, husband is also worried whether to go for divorce. Husband and wife are below 40 years. Apart from refusal from physical relation, wife instead of understanding the need of husband, every day picks up quarrel on petty issue especially during night before sleep so as to avoid husband to approach her and this happens almost every day. Under these circumstances what if when wife not willing to go for divorce. Kindly suggest any other remedy
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 21 June 2016
Divorce is the only remedy as ur suffering mentally.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 21 June 2016
Try for amicable settlement to save the marriage. Should engage the services of psychologist / marriage counselor for some solution.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 21 June 2016
Experts have advised.
Build irrefutable evidence of denial and further counselling if that is opted by you, to save the marriage.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 21 June 2016
You are already advised. Nothing to add more.
