Divorce during pregnancy
Ankita Dutta
(Querist) 18 May 2017
This query is : Resolved
Dear sir,
I am facing a lot of issues with my husband ffor the last few months. He is having relationship with other women in his office and I have certain proofs of messages and phone calls that would be in my favor. Since I'm 5 months pregnant (housewife) and my father is a retired person so I'm mainly concerned about my unborn child financially. Please guide me as it's impossible to stay with this kind of person as it's giving a lot of stress during this critical time of pregnancy. I want a separation. Please help.
Ankita Dutta.
Ankita Dutta
(Querist) 18 May 2017
Please kindly help anyone
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 18 May 2017
Try to counsel him.
Involve elders.
If possible try to save the marriage.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 19 May 2017
the given facts do not suggest any legal remedy was you want separation only and not divorce.
You are also not in a position to enhance stress so you cannot move from claim of maintenance.
Guest
(Expert) 19 May 2017
Agree with Experts
Adv. Yogen Kakade
(Expert) 19 May 2017
If you are looking for divorce.. then an extramarital affair of your husband shall be a strong ground for you to file divorce.
Do not worry about the child's financial future.. as the father of the child shall be totally liable to pay for everything the child needs if you want him to pay..
Do not take stress.. just think about the future and go ahead.. Your health should be your priority.. all the best.
Adv. Yogen Kakade
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Guest
(Expert) 19 May 2017
Take care of your health , whenever any women child birth issue comes first thing which strikes me is about information posted in other forum by my friends wife who is gynecologist.
According to her this time up to 6 months after pregnancy lady goes through lot changes and thus there is lot stress hormonal changes etc . So remembering that I would suggest please take care of your health and pregnancy first at least 1 year from now
After that you can take decision with cool and conscious mind after that evidence which you have can be useful.
It will be exaggerated to compare but very useful in legal filed . Then army chief in 1971 told Indira Gandhi we need to wait. Need time to prepare have better weather , international support and then we will strike . If we start now war it will start but defeat is 100 % . They waited and as pre planned dec they crossed the border .
In your case wait 1 year looking at overall health any how person who is advising may be of your age or younger and age of gynecologist is also same
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 19 May 2017
Mr. Madhu is right.
As they say: Child birth is new birth for mother also.
A pregnant woman goes thru stress and has to beat stress induced complications also……………………e.g; gestational diabetes, BP, bouts of nausea, mood changes etc etc
Take care of your health and baby’s health………….
Try to involve elders of the family and he may give up uncalled for habits and save marriage.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 19 May 2017
Or if he and you both are determined and agree then MCD can be better option.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 19 May 2017
Good advice from the expert Madhu. Agree to it.
May engage some private detective to gather solid proofs, to be used in case of need.
What type of office is this, if government / PSU can approach higher official to transfer your husband away from this station / lady to save your marriage.
Involve elders.
If not employed try to search job for yourself also after birth of the child. Try to be independent.
Guest
(Expert) 19 May 2017
Agree with Experts
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 20 May 2017
@ Ankita Dutta,
You have not disclosed all relevant information for forming an opinion and advise you properly, it would be better to consult a local prudent lawyer for appreciation of facts, guidance and proceeding.
Your unborn child shall get all his/her dues from his/her father, be rest assured. law is there to ensure his/her future if his/her father failed to look after/take care. Otherwise morally, socially as well as legally his/her father is bound to take care for the child as well as his/her mother i.e., yourself.
Meanwhile it would be better and appropriate to discuss the issue/problem with your husband. You can also rope in and seek help of your in-laws.
Take care, God bless.
Guest
(Expert) 20 May 2017
Well Advised by Dr.J.C.Vashista
