Wants to get separated from husband

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 03 June 2011 This query is : Resolved
Hi,

I would like to discuss the situation of one of my closest friend.

She got married to a person in an arranged marriage system. The harmony was not their since from the day of engagement to marriage.

As such the boy was behaving in manner that he doesn't have the responsibility of wife or even towards wedlock. Whenever some queries were asked by a girl was converted to arguments. This is in a brief, if required details will be provided for discussion.

Parents of boy are not talking with girls parents since from the beginning as such there is no relation developed between the families and now since last 2 months even not talking with girls also.

In personal discussion boy have raised the questions of getting golden ornaments as a gift from girl’s side on different occasions.

Even in personal discussion about the home situation and his behavior towards girl or his parent’s behaviors towards her or her parents, his answer was this is the right way. If not accepted, please get separated because he don’t have any correct answer for the same.

It is very difficult for her to stay with her husband and in-laws and same time her parents are not supporting her in this situation, they are asking her to live them (in-laws) only. They have just completed 6 months.

She wants to get separate, what should she do?

Please suggest.

Thanking you

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PALNITKAR V.V. (Expert) 03 June 2011
I think if the marriage was arranged one and with a fair consent of each other then the issues are not so grave as to have divorce immediately. They can be sorted out by a frank discussion. The girl should try to win minds of the husband and in laws. Wait and watch. If the things do not improve then the girl should consider other options.

Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 03 June 2011
Yes, if the negotiations fail for a better future the girl can opt for judicial separation or divorce.

However if one year has not passed from the date of marriage then the girl will have to obtain the sanction of the court ton proceed with the divorce case.

Arif Iqbal (Expert) 03 June 2011
I agree with the experts

mahendrakumar (Expert) 04 June 2011
try to involve close friends and relatives and sort out the issue and consider a professional family counselling too.

if everything fails then only think of a divorce.

I feel a' premartial counselling of couples" should be legally insisted,so that,divorces on trivial issues could be avoided or minimised

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 04 June 2011
Initial trials and discussions are not converting positively. Both the parents are not ready to come face to face and hence it is very difficult for her to get manage herself in that atmosphere.
That's why the last choice she opt to go for separation.
What could be the procedure to obtain the sanction of court to proceed in the case of divorce as 12 months are not over for marriage.
Please let me know the same.

Thanking you very much for your help and support.

NOTTAM VENKATASAMY (Expert) 04 June 2011
BOTH SIDE ELDERS WILL TALK OVER THE SITUATION BECAUSE IT IS THE FAMILY PROBLEM IN CASE IF NOT ANY HARM RAISED THE COUPLE WILL DECIDE WITH MUTUALLY IT IS BETTER FOR THEIR FUTURE.

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