Divorce issue
riya
(Querist) 23 March 2014
This query is : Resolved
,I have been living through a hell situation since marriage.I got married in Dec 2008.At that Time,I was 19yrs old.
My in laws asked for a huge amount during marriage and my parents fulfilled all there wishes.Since,then they have been making my life hell.I have a 4 yrs old daughter also.My husband doesn't talk to me and he expects my parents to give them gifts and cash.He doesn't let me visit my parents place neither can I talk to them.he spends a good amount on himself but doesn't give me much allowances.
My mother in law is also very demanding.Though,in front of others she shows as if she loves me a lot but back home,she keeps on torturing me that my husband will be happy if I forgot my own needs and tell my parents to keep him happy by taking him out to dinners at lavish 5-star hotels and giving him lump some amounts as gifts.I have never been able to talk to anyone freely.My husband doesn't let me go out also.I have been living at home only,no outings nothing.He doesn't even care much about my daughter though he has put him in a good school just to maintain his status.I dont have money with me,i cannot contact anyone and things are becoming worst day by day.Please give me a solution to my problem.I want to get out out my married life but at the same time,I want a secure future for me and my daughter.
Advocate M.Bhadra
(Expert) 23 March 2014
You should not break marriage tie,convince your husband through your relatives or stay outside with your husband and daughter.If you would not find any solution and they would not mend ways then you can file a complaint to the police under Domestic Violence Act. Moreover if you can not find other alternative then file a case u/sec.498a IPC against your husband,in-laws and left your matrimonial house.There after you can file a Maintenance case against your husband.Last of all think about divorce.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 23 March 2014
Breaking marriage would complicate the situation for you and your daughter. Try through your relatives for living separately with your husband.
If they do not agree no other alternate left but to file complaint under DV act, 498A, maintenance etc. Consult a local lawyer. Once such step taken, chances of reconciliation would end.
M V Gupta
(Expert) 24 March 2014
It should be possible for u to contact ur parents and other close relatives and inform the harsh treatment being faced by you. You should be able to use ur mobile or other electronic gadgets to convey the message. As wife u should know how to broach to ur husband ur desire to live seperately so that u and ur family can live with some amount of freedom. ur effort should be to save ur marriage as advised by the experts. Complaints or walking out of marital home should be the last resort
