Pls advice...
salim
(Querist) 04 December 2014
This query is : Resolved
I am married last 10 years.I work as a manager and also for human rights organisation.My wife is a little phycho and whenever she gets angry she changes in to enemy! she beats me and fights for hours and hours non stop! i dont speak a word in between as i know if i say anything it would be a begining of a new fight! i also have a daughter 8 years old, and looking at her i have to keep quiet.in the last 6 years she had made three NC on my name in a gap of appx 2 years each.anything happens she goes to police station...i am fed up!
i just beat her once the first time, and she got an NC registered on my name.after that 2 fake NC she had made i mean where it was not necessary to go to police station.
and to a surprise my wife is a doctor by profession...
this time she had crossed all limits, she made a NC for me and my family and stated that we are demanding money from her.
the police spoke to everyone in my family and me and they understood that she is just lying.the matter is setteled by the police but my question is i dont feel secure with her she behaves like a mad women.she was not like this before and there is no circumstances also like money problem or i hve any kind of drinking and beating problem.i dont have any habits.everything is cool around.
I dont want to live with her and want to leave her.also i want my daughter to be with me and she also dont want to stay with her as she tourtures her too.
my wife is earning 46 thousand and my salary is 15thousand.Pls advice what to do if i want to divorce her,will i come under any liability?how can i have my daughters custody?can i claim for maintance for my daughter after filing for divorce from her? pls advice as per muslim marriage act if possible with IPC sections.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 04 December 2014
You can file a suit for divorce. Since she is earning, you can not be directed to pay her maintenance.
Once you file divorce suit, she may file case u/s 498A IPC. However once you get the bail, you have nothing to worry anymore.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 04 December 2014
your wife needs psychiatrist treatment . the fact that once she gets angry she beats you black and blue indicates she is suffering from some illness since she is a doctor she must be recognising her symptoms . take help of her parents to convince her to take treatment .
you can file for divorce if situation dosent improve . since she is working she wont get any maintenance
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 04 December 2014
no more to add.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 05 December 2014
Agree with the advise of expert ajay sethi ji.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 05 December 2014
Agree with the advise of expert ajay sethi ji.
Biswanath Roy
(Expert) 06 December 2014
She might be an eccentric type woman and needs proper counselling by a Psychiatrist Doctor. Don't think about divorce now and not to spoil the life of a mother.
salim
(Querist) 06 December 2014
Good advice given by Mr.Biswanath Roy.I will take the first step of concelling a phychiatirst first before heading for divorce.Thanks.....
Biswanath Roy
(Expert) 06 December 2014
Thanks for your appreciation.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 09 December 2014
You may follow whichever advise suits you best out of the advises given by experts. After all it is your life and future.
