Rcr and gwa
Edwin
(Querist) 19 November 2015
This query is : Resolved
First of all thanks for the noble work you do here by spreading the truth when everyone other out there are just looting.
2008: Registered marriage., prepared her passport
2009: Church marriage and went abroad
2009-2013 : All fine, we had come to India for vacation many a times and gone back.
2013 Caught her having another affair, She agreed asked pardon. Forgave her as she was carrying my child.
2013 Dec: I was blessed with a baby boy, took her along with her mother to the Marriage tribunal in UAE, She agreed all her faults. Upon counselling Priest asked me to forgive her and she agreed to repent all sins and agreed to leave those affairs. (She had same with someone else before marriage and I had forgiven her without informing anyone)
2014 Jan: She went to India along with new born Son, her mother, money all gold and lot of shopping. I gave all as she said will repent and return as good wife.
2014 Feb: She denied going her matrimonial home (My home) arranged Christening of baby silently without informing us. Stil I send money and kept contact saying be in your home.
2014 Feb-2014 June: My family went to see her and child, gave gifts and asked her to come home. She denied.
2014 Jul: She gave a police complaint in her town on me and my father (73) saying domestic violence, harassment, Threaten to kidnap child, not sending money, and life threat. Upon police call my father got shocked and fell ill. Later along with my brother in law went to station and was taken in writing that they will bring me to India else I would be arrested in any airport in India.
2014 Oct: I resigned my job as I don’t wanted to defame my company and my reputation and came to India. Upon verification, found she has left her home along with whole family and moved to unknown place. I pressurized Police and she was brought to the station and denied to unite.
2014Oct-Dec: I tried all possible ways to get her back through family, friends, priests, bishop but nothing happened. Finally put RCR and GWA in Mangalore court and went back to UAE to search a job.
2015 Feb: Reconciliation, both attended after she did not attended two prior sessions. She denied joining, Threatened judge asking guarantee. I proceeded to evidence.
2015 Jul: Evidence, I gave all the proofs of her affairs and prayed for child custody or urged her to come back as child need mother also. I was crossed by her lawyer and found nothing wrong.
2015 Jul-Oct: She did not attend and escaped all evidence stage proceedings. Her father was brought to court and made to give a written agreement to bring her. Later She moved to high court Bangalore citing she works there and put a stay on the case for 8 weeks and asked to move case to Bangalore.
2014-2015 I was deprived from seeing the child, last I saw him in the police station. I have lost money, gold, child, my and family health and happiness. She is just delaying to harass me more so I divorce her and she can get alimony. All the facts are against her false complaint and she will be nailed with the proofs. (I got emails, chats, nude photos and videos between them, attempts for abortion, cheating men on internet with fake emails fake Facebook ids, seducing men also statement from tribunal in UAE). I still write this thinking my son’s future so I asked her to join, No priests and lawyer are saying to take her back a she did 4th time betrayal for me.
Nov 2015: Her 8 weeks stay is over and she has to attend the court now.
I seek justice, I need my child. I can’t run behind as I am not in India. Can I give Power of attorney to my brother in law or a friend, Should I appeal in high court? Why can’t I get to bring my son home? When whole society knows that I haven’t done any violence why can’t the judiciary see it? Please guide me.
Guest
(Expert) 19 November 2015
Dear Mr.Edwin your Story is Very Sympathetic.You Could Go for Mutual Consent Divorce Which would be Completed in 6 months Time.And your Presence would be Required Twice in Court First For Submitting the MCD in Court and Court would Adjourn it For 6 months and after 6 months While the Order would be Pronounced Your Presence is Needed .Regarding the Child to be with you You would Require a Good Negotiator.Seek the help of Good Advocate to Finalise .
Edwin
(Querist) 19 November 2015
Dear Sir
Thanks, I am not going for divorce as I can't trust again and remarry. Only wish is to get my son, Were are you from? Can you suggest some honest lawyer and not a greedy one with looting intention?
regards
Edwin
(Querist) 19 November 2015
Any Other suggestions?
