Harassment by girl
Mohit
(Querist) 02 April 2017
This query is : Resolved
Iam male 29
I had affair with a girl from 2007 to 2015 but due to family issues I refuse to marry and it was mutually commitment that we never thought of marriage in starting 1st day.
Now I don't want to talk to her she is forcing me to get marry with her since last 2 years she used to msg me I blocked her and she always say that she will commit suicide .
Dear sir iam so much of afraid if this today she say that she will eat pills what I can do sir please move me away from this condition .
I have Prof that I didn't call her since 2 years and I have chat of her and her recording
Mohit
(Querist) 02 April 2017
What should I have to do
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 02 April 2017
An ideal recipe for the girl to allege that you refused marriage as the family (including married/unmarried brother/sister with/without spouses) wanted dowry more than what her family could afford.
Guest
(Expert) 02 April 2017
Precisely a good advise by Expert Mr.Sudhir Kumar
Guest
(Expert) 02 April 2017
Had an affair with that girl for 8 years and now simply want to run away.Law has got Big Hands
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 02 April 2017
"Dear sir iam so much of afraid if this today she say that she will eat pills what'
Since the marriage has not taken pl;ace your family may not be jailed (7 yrs +) in 304B.
but 306 can well be proved (on you and each family member whom you name resisting marriage), unless your family has a legally tenable (not silly orthodox) reason for refusing marriage.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 02 April 2017
Have you shared the said threats ever with elders of your family?
Their fate is linked with you if the said girl commits any of said act.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 02 April 2017
If you promised to marry and girl that you know for last 8 years is good companion then why you don’t want to marry her?
In year 2007 you were about 19 years and probably a student. It was time to focus on studies than to be in such relations that can disturb later.
May be at age 29 years, although you are at marriageable age, but you are still building your career and are not settled.
Discuss the matter and said threats with elders of your family and alongwith them visit a very able counsel at your location and show the entire chats, recordings etc to your counsel.
The elders and counsel can guide you further in person.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 02 April 2017
Mahodaya Sudhirji,
Prashan-kartaa ko santusht karen.
Prashan-kartaa ki yaachikaa ka yatha sambhav sampuran nivaran karen.
Taaki aisi cheshthaa sambhavtaa band ho.
Anyatha hum sub mil kar karen.
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/details.asp?mod_id=148313&offset=1
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 02 April 2017
Mahodaya Sudhirji,
Prashan-kartaa ki ek aur yaachikaa ke liye yahaan dekhen:
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/details.asp?mod_id=148316&offset=1
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 02 April 2017
Mahodaya Sudhirji,
Prashan-kartaa ki yaachikaa ka yatha sambhav sampuran nivaran karen.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 02 April 2017
agreeing with Mr Kumar Doab I will add that you are not only marriageable age rather getting overage.
agreeing with Mr Narasimha I may add that the girl may also be getting overage (stupid enough to believe you for so many years) and now you want to ditch her.
called in Mahila Thana your entire family will agree in few hours.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 02 April 2017
"Prashan-kartaa ki yaachikaa ka yatha sambhav sampuran nivaran karen."
श्री कुमार दोआब, आप कृपया कोइ राय जाहिर करें कि यह व्यक्ति कैसे सफलतापूर्वक उस लड़की को मूर्ख बना कर पीछा छुड़ा सके.
और निराधार बिना विधिमान्य कारणों से विवाह के लिए इतने वर्षों बाद मन करना पर यदि वे लगाकी इसके परिवार के वयवार के कारण आत्महत्या कर ले तो कैसे यह परिवार जेल से बाहर रहे
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 02 April 2017
"Have you shared the said threats ever with elders of your family?
It is vital let your family know that 2+2=4
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 03 April 2017
There is no binding that the partners in live-in relationship should get married to each other. The very purpose will be defeated. The arrangement itself is that they can break up whenever they are not comfortable with each other anymore.
If she is threatening and forcing you to marry her, you may initiate legal action by lodging a complaint with the police about this and also register a FIR against her for posing suicidal threats and putting pressure on you to marry her etc.
The police action will make her to think about the consequences and she may keep away from you after that.
This is my opinion, you may decide the course of action as per circumstances prevailing in your side.
Adv. Yogen Kakade
(Expert) 03 April 2017
It is a clear fact that you both were in live in relationship. As per the law live in relationship is not a promise of marriage and no one can compel the other to get married.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 03 April 2017
Mahodaya Sudhirji,
Aisa koi Raasta na to malum hai or na hi sujhaya jaatra hai jisse safla poorvak ladki ko moorkh bana kar pichaa churaa sake.
There is NO contact for last 2 years by the author/querist.
The querist/author has not posted any action like suicide committed by girl.
He should ASAP discuss with elders of his family and alongwith his elders may visit his own counsel at his location.
Guest
(Expert) 03 April 2017
So, were you waiting for two years for the girl to suicide or eat pills?
Is not is strange that since last 2 years she had been using to msg you, you blocked her, but still you used to get msgs to know that she always say that she will commit suicide.
Still further, you have stated, you didn't call her since 2 years, but still have chat of her and her recording? HOW THAT COULD HAPPEN WITHOUT ANY CONTACT FOR THE LAST TWO YEARS? Please tell experts for the benefit of their clients also.
Guest
(Expert) 03 April 2017
@ Kumar Doab & Sudhir Kumar,
ladki ko moorkh banane ka upaye nahin poochcha usne, balki querist aap dono ko moorkh banaane mein safal ho gaya lagta hai, jo aap dono eik doodre se competition mein badh chadh kar apni anaik tareh ki advice baar baar dene ki koshish kar rahe hain.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 04 April 2017
Very well analysed, opined and advised by experts, I fully agree and appreciate.
You have to part ways with her and wait & watch for her next step/action, which can not be presumed at this stage.
Meanwhile get yourself married (arranged) involving with your consenting family and enjoy.
Guest
(Expert) 04 April 2017
"Due to my family Issues I refused to marry her " Stated by the Author.So Obviously the relationship is based on getting married and the Author would have even taken advantage on his promise which had forced the girl to the level of committing suicide.It is nothing but a criminal offence and Criminal Breach of Trust.It all depends how the girl is going to present her case/complaint.If she is properly advised legally in presenting the Complaint no doubt the offender could be behind the bar.
Guest
(Expert) 04 April 2017
IPC sections 415,417,323 and 506 would easily fit to the Offender.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 04 April 2017
Agree with madam N.J.S.Rajkumar alias narasimha.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 04 April 2017
@PSD,
You have already been instructed and ordered not to comment on me and my posts.
Sirf tum hi ho jo moorkh ho and bane ho or banoge or bante rahoge.
We all will continue to share at LCI amongst each other without any of your trademark nuisance, idiotic and tamashaa views and language.
The author has his own elders in the family and alongwith his elders of the family he can visit his own counsel at his own location and handle the matter at his hands.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 04 April 2017
Agreed with Vashistaji also.
As advised author may alongwith his elders of the family can visit his own counsel at his own location and handle the matter at his hands.
Added: If there are family issues don’t befriend girls and first handle family issues.
If things go wrong all in the family will be having many issues staring at them.
Guest
(Expert) 18 April 2017
Mr. Doab,
Tum to apne chahete Sudhir Kumar ko bhi ko hi moorakh banaane perr tul gaye ho. Usne aap se yeh kaha tha, "श्री कुमार दोआब, आप कृपया कोइ राय जाहिर करें कि यह व्यक्ति कैसे सफलतापूर्वक उस लड़की को मूर्ख बना कर पीछा छुड़ा सके." ...... "और निराधार बिना विधिमान्य कारणों से विवाह के लिए इतने वर्षों बाद मन करना पर यदि वे लगाकी इसके परिवार के वयवार के कारण आत्महत्या कर ले तो कैसे यह परिवार जेल से बाहर रहे" LELIN AAPNE TUM NE KYA KAHAA, KI, "As advised author may alongwith his elders of the family can visit his own counsel at his own location and handle the matter at his hands," JISKA SAAF MATLAB NIKLTA HAI KI TUM KOI KANNONI SALAH DAINE KE KABIL HO HI NAHIN, KEWAL MOORKH HE BANAATE HO. Arre moorakhanand, yadi uske elders ya family members uski help kar sakte toh querist yahan kyon apni samasya likhta? Anyone and everyone can advise him to visit his own counsel, what was special in your advice to tell him, "visit his own counsel at his own location and handle the matter at his hands."
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 18 April 2017
@PSD,
You were, you are, you will be , you will remain the: Moorkhanand: Head of all MOORKH's.
( O Moorkhon ke Leader:Tum moorkh the, ho, rahoge.................)
YOU WANT ME TO INSULT A FELLOW EXPERT SINCE YOU WANT IT.
If the author/ querist is not to be asked to approach his/her own very able counsel at his /her own location then author/ querist is asked to contact whom: Doorman or beggar at some Majaar or some plumber?
And certainly not to you.
YOU KNOW THAT WHY?
YOUR MEMORY REFRESHED: YOU ARE NOT A LAWYER YOU ARE A LIAR.
THE FIRM THAT YOU SHAMELESSLY ADVERTISE IS NOT A LAW FIRM BUT A LIAR'S FIRM TO ALLURE UNSUSPECTING QUERIST/AUTHORS.
YOU HAVE BEEN COPYING,DOWNLOADING AND SAVING MY POSTS,ATTACHMENTS, CITATIONS, FOR YEARS.
LCI IS YOUR BAIT.
DON'T WORRY THE ELDERS OF THE FAMILY OF THE AUTHOR/QUERIST WILL TAKE CARE OF THEIR SONS AND DAUGHTERS
AND
THE CITY OF AUTHOR/QUERIST WILL HAVE VERY ABLE COUNSELS OF UNSHAKABLE REPUTE AND INTEGRITY TO TAKE CARE OF THEIR CLIENTS.
YOU REMAIN BUSY IN FOOLING YOURSELF.
KEEP ON WASTING YOUR TIME IN FOOLING YOURSELF.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 18 April 2017
@PSD can enact his trademark TAMASHAA on anything, whatever, but in front of his mirror in his private fiefdom as many times, as long as, as many times a day @PSD wants.
At LCI he has to stop his Trademark Tamashaa, forever, permanently.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 18 April 2017
Today also in this thread also, although for the 1st time in this thread, I wish @PSD eternal peace and sleep.
Guest
(Expert) 19 April 2017
Mr. Doab,
I very well knew that as of a remedy to your chronic disease of making multiple posts, you would definitely repeat or copy and paste abuses not in one but in multiple posts.
By the way, WHY AND FROM WHOM YOU ARE AFRAID OF POSTING YOUR REAL IDENTITY WITH YOUR REAL NAME AND PHOTO IN YOUR PROFILE AT THE LCI?
Although I have repeated this question more than hundred times, but you have not replied so far. Can you reply my question sincerely and honestly, may be in your usual abusive language?
