Extra marital affair
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Anonymous
(Querist) 07 January 2018
This query is : Resolved
Hi.. I am married for 4 years and fall into an Extramarital affair from last 9 months.. 3 months back my wife came to know by hacking my WhatsApp.. she has read all the chat we had about the enjoyment of our physical relationship ( me and my Girlfriend)..
Now she want a divorce but my Extramarital affair has got over last 2 months back, and I am not in a relationship with her anymore..
Now she is harrassing me a lot, want to send me the legal notice by staying with me only, threating to commit suicide, threating to harm the girl with whom I had an affair, threating to make a police complaints for domestic violence..
I am fed up with her threating on daily basis and cannot concentrate on anything..
Pls advise and suggest a good lawyer as I am totally mentally disturbed..
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Anonymous
(Querist) 07 January 2018
I stay in Mumbai.. Thane area
Vijay Raj Mahajan
(Expert) 07 January 2018
If your wife wants divorce agree for it. You both jointly file for divorce by mutual consent and end the marriage. The issue of the extra-marital relationship with another woman, your no more doing it now is not relevant as your wife will not agree to continue the marriage now and if you try to stop her, it will be big trouble for you. Your wife if commits suicide as she threatens than mind you there will be big trouble for you . The threats like these sometimes become reality. For peaceful mental settlement its best to move out of the marriage where trust of each other lost for ever.
Any expert here telling you to go for matrimonial compromise through some marriage counsellor will never be successful as your wife has lost all faith in you. I'm dealing such cases for last 35 years and knows the mind-set of people involved in matrimonial disputes.
N.K.Assumi
(Expert) 07 January 2018
Stolen food is always sweet, but it comes with the wages of Sin. Adultery is one of the greatest potent to snapped a relationship, it destroys the trust and confidence and burnt down the flame of LOVE completely. Better follow the expert opinion of Vijay Raj Mahajan.
Guest
(Expert) 07 January 2018
Well Advised by Mr.Vijay Raj Mahajan with Excellent Perfect Opinions of Mr N.K.Assumi
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Anonymous
(Querist) 07 January 2018
Thank you Mr. Mahajan for your kind advise.. just wanted to know whether we can file a divorce by staying at the same house, can she file a police complaints for my extra marital affair as she is having an WhatsApp chat as proof, can the girl be charged also and if yes then can i get the bail immediately or can I apply for an anticipatory bail..
Pls suggest..
Vijay Raj Mahajan
(Expert) 07 January 2018
Yes you both can file MCD even if living under the same roof. Separate living for 1 year means not living as husband and wife.
No criminal compliant for adultery for you or your girl friend.
Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 08 January 2018
Yes you both filing for MCD or MUtual consent divorce is best in this case. Any normal wife when hears or comes to know about her husband's extramarital RELATIONSHIP WOULD BEHAVE THE SAME WAY AS YOUR WIFE. does. AFTER INITIAL SHOCK IS OVER SHE WILL COME PREPARED FOR MCD.. Its better both of you part ways rather than prolonging the marriage when love and mutual trust is lost. Mutual trust is the cornerstone of rany meaningful or good relationship.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 10 January 2018
Good Evening Mr. Mahajan,
I had a discussion with my wife regarding the MCD but she is denying for it, her main intention is to involve that girl into the court so her families member should get aware and anyhow her life gets ruin, because she know she is supposed to get married soon.
She said if she file MCD with me then she will go to her place and do drama in front of her family member, which I feel it's not right and she should not take this step.
Her lawyer has advised her that if she send the notice to me and my girl both then we will both have to stand in court and in this way her family member will come to know about everything.
She want divorce from me but at the same time she want that girl life's to get ruin also..
What should I do now as I don't want that girl to get involved in this as her total life will get spoiled.
Pls advise some solution for it as m not getting the ways to deal with it..
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Anonymous
(Querist) 12 January 2018
Mr. Mahajan pls advise
