Marriage problems

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 16 November 2011 This query is : Resolved
Hello,
My wife has breached my trust by giving false information at the time of marriage.She told me her qualification was a masters degree and now she tells me she has a bachelor's degree.I am wondering how to collect a proof for it.She used to do a job but after marriage she did not do the job for a single day saying that she was sacked.
She is not ready to adjust with any single thing and complains about everything which comes her way.She had become violent and scratched my hands and shoulders.She is in continuous touch with her mother on cell phone (since the time of our honeymoon)and many times do not even talk to me. Now we have a small baby child to look after.
Please suggest what can be done legally?

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ajay sethi (Expert) 16 November 2011
what do you want? since you ahve a small baby you must try to have patience with her . consult a marriage counsellor .

Sankaranarayanan (Expert) 16 November 2011
You will try to convince her maximum by way of her parents advise and other senior member of your family and neighbor too. After all above , if any further adamant then consult your nearest lawyer and seek mutual diverse and apply petition

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 16 November 2011
Thanks for your reply. Mr. Sethi, I feel that
she (on the advice of her mother)can lodge or threaten to lodge a case against me.She has threatened me a couple of times that her parents will "teach me a lesson". She wants me to obey whatever she says.As long as possible I do not want to disturb the family setup but I also do want to stay alert and safeguard myself (and other members of family)from any false legal case(s).She has habbit of lying and I am planning to record all her conversations with a recorder.

ajay sethi (Expert) 16 November 2011
are you staying with your parents? or its a nuclear family?

is it owned flat ? or rented?

you have to be on your guard . take some precautions .

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 16 November 2011
I am staying with my parents.The flat is owned by my mom.

Rajeev Kumar (Expert) 16 November 2011
Follow the advise of experts

prabhakar singh (Expert) 16 November 2011
I suspect her psychologically ill so you should take her to a path of treatment.

M.Sheik Mohammed Ali (Expert) 16 November 2011
yes, i do agreed expert query reply

mahendrakumar (Expert) 16 November 2011
are you trying to make grounds for divorce without trying for other reconcilliation attempts at this stage?

there is no point in highlighting the qualification issue.

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 16 November 2011
As I said I do not want to go for a divorce.These are the things harassing me and I am feeling cheated. Over and above all this I am being kept under pressure by the mood swings. I had highlighted the qualification issue because that is one of the thing that indicates habit of telling a lie.
I want to safeguard myself (and my family members) if a false case is filed.

ajay sethi (Expert) 16 November 2011
why dont you stay separate in rented flat . once you stay separate may be her behaviour iwll improve . she will have to look after baby and take her of the household too .

take a place on rent near your parents for some time . maybe her violent tendencies will reduce and she may be maenable to see a psychiatrist

Sailesh Kumar Shah (Expert) 17 November 2011
It is not advisable to go divorce without trying for other reconciliation attempts.

Shonee Kapoor (Expert) 17 November 2011
Wait a minute,

What is the real issue here, she is threatening you and hence you are trying to find some grounds to start action before her.

Dear Friend,

If you have a small baby, it is best to think of his future and try to resolve the matters amicably. Children are the worst sufferers of marital discord.

In case you think I can be of any help, feel free to get in touch with the undersigned.

Regards,

Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com

Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 18 November 2011
yes rightly advised by all.

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