Advice pleaase
ragz hyder
(Querist) 22 April 2013
This query is : Resolved
Thank you for reading my query. I got married a year ago. Things have been extremely erratic, abnormal, psychiatric mental disorderly kind of conduct from the girl. Net is that less than a month of marriage she left my parents house after abusing my family on the streets. We did not do anything wrong at all swear. I have a bunch of emails as well.
We have been sitting tight for a year now with me an NRI being visited by my parents.
We tried to convince as much as possible for MCD and even suggested we will give compensation (we did not take any dowry)
Now they are coming back askin 1 Crore, sent me emails threatening 498A.
Should I file case first? Some are saying this will backfire...but given its all a psychological game and that they are openly threatening in emails calls etc should I go ahead and file. Others say..its threats let them take first step.(from lawyer no FIR so far apparently) Guy can only defend. If you file now they might take even your filing as harassment(we already gave legal notice and I have categorically told them this marriage is impossible to work out).
Please advise.Should I file or sit tight?
Adv k . mahesh
(Expert) 22 April 2013
do not be in hurry to file a case against them first let them move the step then you decide what to do
P. Venu
(Expert) 23 April 2013
Undisclosed mental unsoundness itself is a ground for seeking divorce.
K.K.Ganguly
(Expert) 24 April 2013
Yes. You can file it now.
Advocate Ravinder
(Expert) 25 April 2013
Firstly, you arrange a meeting with common friends and relatives, try to solve the problem by giving compensation and get MCD. If they do not heed to the above meetings, immediately file a divorce case under the grounds of cruelty and mental unsound.
Do not worry about their filing cases, let them file. You should have self respect and you should be bold before taking some dare step. You should not bow your head before your wife.
Nowadays, the wife is misusing the section of 498-A for their illegal demands.
Vijyant Nigam (09807349001)
(Expert) 26 April 2013
emails are e-documentary evidence. u can file a criminal case on that basis. threatening and blackmailing is an offence.
divorce petition can also b filed if u have any proof of her unsoundness of mind.
