Link between transfer (posting) and dv (498a)
bipul
(Querist) 24 June 2015
This query is : Resolved
I am presently working in a PSU in Kolkata. Want to take job transfer to my native place (a semi urban area surrounded by rural area). Wife and In laws are opposing. She is not willing to go to my native place with me but will prefer to go to her paternal house ( kolkata or delhi at both location his father has flat). My parents stay at my native place. (I am willing to take transfer to my native place but will not stay with my parents in fear of DV/498a from my wife). I will stay a safe distance away (but not too far away) from my parental house so that in case of emergency I will be available to them.
if I take the transfer, will it be a dv / 498a for my wife ?
What are the precautions should i take ? ( There is enough indication (Threat) she will go for DV / 498a)
we have a daughter (1.5 year). if she says she will stay in delhi/kolkata with her parents for better education and facility for daughter and ask for maintenance. will it be a legally valid demand from her ?
In laws are not reliable. They do not care for anything in this world except their own interest.
I am expecting DV / 498a in future (currently wife is with me). What precaution should I take ?
Guest
(Expert) 24 June 2015
Presently you don't have any legal problem. No advice can be possible on any unhappened future problem merely on guess or presumptions. If by getting transfer, you predict dv/ 498a case in future, why do you seek transfer? Better stick to remain at the present place of your posting.
bipul
(Querist) 25 June 2015
Dear Sir,
Thank you for your advice.
why I want to take transfer---
1.) My parents are staying at my native place. They are becoming older (needs look after ).
Parents are not educated. Sister yet to be married. I am the elder son of my parents. Other two brothers are not financially settled (education bellow class x).
2.) All my relatives are also in the same region.
3.) Financial health of the psu (I am working) is not in good shape. parallel /Alternate income / business will be easier at my native place for me.
Guest
(Expert) 25 June 2015
That is your personal problem. You may better shift your parents to live with you. If financial health of the your psu is not in good shape, apply for a post in some other organisation within the same city.
bipul
(Querist) 25 June 2015
Dear Sir,
Thanks for your advice.
Bringing parents and sister at my current location is fraught with other risks. Few months earlier my wife threatened she will injured herself and make police case against me or will kill me using contract killer.
After that I started searching net to know how she can implicate me in false case then I came to know about the 498a and DV.
During child's birth my mother came here for one month it was a nightmarish experience for her.
She complains (more or less everything) about the condition of my quarter (we currently staying departmental quarter). In such situation bringing 3 person too much risky as at any situation I do not want them to run for police station / court.
my wife does not have any brother and sister (this has impacted her personality). My wife never tried to adapt with financial condition.
I had to keep two maid (even a single maid is not sync with my financial state)
In lot of occasion even my logical reply to anything my wife says makes her violent and she resorts to violence. On multiple occasion she attacked me. In every case some how I managed to escape without any major injury without confronting her (Like leaving quarter ). I knew she is attacking me to provoke me to react and in the process if she gets injured then she will make police complain. I was alert because of her past threat so I never reacted.
For the last four year she avoided the minimum responsibility of a wife towards husband.
She wanted divorce, maintenance and child on multiple occasion.
She can not even handle the child.
She wants high profile life.
on multiple occasion I asked her to go for Psychiatric treatment, she is not willing. she is having health issue (It may be related to her psychological condition). Marriage was through online proposal.
After Marriage I came to know She was willing to lead a single life (not a marriage life) as well as I was not in her choice list. Because of my FIL's insistence she married me.
Shifting job in govt sector is going to be difficult==> 1.) Age limit.2.) Environment at home not conducive for study. 3.) Private sector job ==> After 10 years in psu it is going to be difficult. Instead opening a coaching center for student in my native place and any other business is will be a better option for me in case of any emergency in my current psu job. Beside as my wife can not handle baby in-spite of two maid the kind of time I need to provide to baby will not be possible if I join Private job. Although my wife wanted me to take a private job and go abroad for more money and she will stay with her parents I only need to send her money from abroad.
Please advice---
Guest
(Expert) 25 June 2015
If you think private job or profession is permissible in addition to your existing job in PSU, you are mistaken.
Anyway, you may better try to convince your wife. If unable to handle the situation, you may apply for divorce.
bipul
(Querist) 25 June 2015
Dear Sir,
Thanks for your response.
I did not mean about parallel job in Pvt sector. I mean in case of VRS in current PSU, at that situation. But Of-course I am thinking about parallel business.
Guest
(Expert) 25 June 2015
Mr. Bipul,
From, vague descriptions, your problem seems to be purely hypothetical in nature. You have rendered only 10 years of service in the PSU and is thinking of VRS. You have further stated, you are thinking about parallel business. All these vague descriptions clearly reveal that either you are not an employee of the psue or you don't know rules and regulations of your psu even slightly.
bipul
(Querist) 25 June 2015
Dear Sir,
Thanks for your response,
Management is thinking about giving VRS to employees to reduce cost so that the PSU can survive. For the last few years it is making loss. Amount of loss going up in each year.
My native place is area where people doing various type of business. I can start one as a side business not in my own name but any other family member's name.
Guest
(Expert) 26 June 2015
Enjoy the offer, but don't try to link dv/498a case with your service matter. PSUs losses are only due to the employees you have referred, who prefer to care for self interest rather than the organisation.
