Deepika
25 October 2016 at 21:13
Hi I would need some suggestion in this situation. I like a guy who is from a different caste though from the same religion and I told my mother that I like this guy and want to marry him. This is something I told my mother 4 years ago and she instantly said no but I told her I would either get married to him or no one else. She kept saying no n I kept saying if not him no one else. After 4 years of telling her now she is blackmailing me saying she would die if I go against her. And she is giving me mental pressure and telling me she would house arrest me. I am a working women.. I cannot spoil my career and leave my experience just coz she has an issue. I spoke to her about my career as well and her response to that once u get married ur husband will earn incase ur husband doesn't earn than u can work somewhere. She is forcing me to marry against my wish. What are my rights against this and how do I convince her.. I totally confused and I'm getting to a stage of depression.. I agree that my mom is a single mom and she has raised me with lot of difficulties and gave me a awesome life but I can't scarifies my life for that and marry against my will. Any help and suggestion would be of great help.
My mother is mentally torturing me
Hi I would need some suggestion in this situation. I like a guy who is from a different caste though from the same religion and I told my mother that I like this guy and want to marry him. This is something I told my mother 4 years ago and she instantly said no but I told her I would either get married to him or no one else. She kept saying no n I kept saying if not him no one else. After 4 years of telling her now she is blackmailing me saying she would die if I go against her. And she is giving me mental pressure and telling me she would house arrest me. I am a working women.. I cannot spoil my career and leave my experience just coz she has an issue. I spoke to her about my career as well and her response to that once u get married ur husband will earn incase ur husband doesn't earn than u can work somewhere. She is forcing me to marry against my wish. What are my rights against this and how do I convince her.. I totally confused and I'm getting to a stage of depression.. I agree that my mom is a single mom and she has raised me with lot of difficulties and gave me a awesome life but I can't scarifies my life for that and marry against my will. Any help and suggestion would be of great help.