Harassment and intimidation to my only daughter
s k majumdar
(Querist) 01 October 2009
This query is : Resolved
Dear sir
i) My daughter, being the only child of ours is presently pursuing her B.Tech in Nagpur.She is final year candidate and the course will be completed by March'2010.She is from Jharkhand state.
ii)She is being constantly threatened by one of her friend to marry him before sitting for the final examination else he will murder her.The boy is under apprehension that after completing final examination she will leave nagpur and therefore will be out of reach to marry.
iii)Except for pure friendship my daughter is having no other relationship with the boy.
iv)The boy is local one i.e from Nagpur and is engaged in the property dealing business of his father.
v)We as parents are under constant fear and both i.e me and my wife being highbloodpressure and heart patients and do not know how my daughter can be saved out of the clutches of this rogue element.
She is not able to concentrate on her studies and living in constant fear.
vi) we do not want any marital realtionship of my daughter with the boy because the boys family and ours is from a different cultural background and the boy is not educationally at par with my daughter.Moreover the boy is having no income of his own.
vii) Pls. suggest ways of what are the measures available to me to get out of this serious predicament.
viii)Shall i go to the police or shall we go for a legal remedy or shall we tell all these to the parents of the boy.If so then what are the likely fallouts.What will be the prudent action.
viiii)The boy we understand is adamant and refusing to obey his fathers ande friends advices and is hell bent to damage the career and life of our only child by marrying before the examination which is likely to be held in March'2010.
Pls. help me by ur kind advice.
S.K.majumdar
Asst.Manager(Internal audit)
Guest
(Expert) 01 October 2009
NANDKUMAR B.SAWANT.M.COM.LL.B.(MUMBAI),ADVOCATE
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REGARDING YOUR DAUGHTER AND THE THREATS TO HER KINDLY NOTE THAT
1.YOU MAY SEND A DETAILED COMPLAINT TO THE DISTRICT SUPDT OF POLICE NAGPUR ,MAHARASHTRA. AND MENTION ALL FACTS AND EXACT NAME AND ADDRESS OF YOUR DAUGHTER AND ALSO OF THE ACCUSED BOY WHO IS THREATENING HER.
2.KINDLY NOTE THAT YOU HAVE TO PRODUCE ALL DOCUMENTARY EVIDENCE INCLUDING LETTERS , PHOTOGRAPHS AND OTHER DETAILS IF ANY AND ALSO MENTION NAMES OF AT LEAST TWO WITNESSES TO PROVE THE ALLEGATIONS.
AND YOU SHOULD PRAY FOR PREVENTIVE ACTION ON THE PART OF POLICE.
3.ALTERNATELY YOU MAY FILE A PRIVATE COMPLAINT TO THE CHIEF JUDICIAL MAGISTRATES COURT DIRECTLY AND WRITE ALL DETAILS ABOUT NAME AND ADDRESS OF YOUR DAUGHTER AND ALSO OF THE ACCUSED BOY WHO IS HARASSING YOUR DAUGHTER AND THREATENING HER TO KILL.
YOU MAY FILE THIS COMPLAINT THROUGH EXPERT LAWYER SO THAT PROCESS WILL BE ISSUED AGAINST THE ACCUSED UNDER THE APPROPRIATE SECTIONS OF INDIAN PENAL CODE ,AND UNDER SEC.156(3) IF CRIMINAL PROCEDURE CODE AND POLICE OFFICER OF THE POLICE STATION HAVING AREA JURISDICTION WILL BE ORDERED TO INVESTIGATE THE MATTER AND REPORT.
I THINK THIS SHOULD SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM.
KINDLY DO NOT INVOLVE YOURSELF IN PERSONAL ENMITY OR DO NOT ABUSE OR THREATEN THE BOY OR ELSE HE MAY INVOLVE YOU IN FALSE CASES PLEASE NOTE.
YOU MAY SEND DETAILS IN CASE ANY FURTHER HELP IS REQUIRED.
WITH BEST REGARDS TO YOU YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
THANKING YOU
YOURS SINCERELY
NANDKUMAR B.SAWANT.M.COM.LL.B.(MUMBAI),ADVOCATE.
Sachin Bhatia
(Expert) 01 October 2009
File a complaint to the Ilaka police station and also send a copy of that complaint to S.P. and D.C. of that area, if the concerned authorities don't take any action then alternately you can file a direct complaint to the ilaka magistrate.
adv. rajeev ( rajoo )
(Expert) 02 October 2009
I agree with the advices of both the learned members.
My opinin is that if you filed any complaint, itz harrashment to your daughter, first of all you are not the resident of Nagpur. The boy may influence the police because he is resident of Nagpur. Once u file a complaint police people will always misutilize that. They trteat the complainant as if he is an accused.
Certainly it affects your daughter. Headache investigation procedures, enquiry etc., itz so worst.
Your daughter will play vital role, she has to takle smoothly with the boy.
Let her tell the boy till the compeletion of her education don't distrub, she has to make some drama to come out of the clutches of the boy. Let her maintain good friendship with the boy. Once after compeletion of the exams she will be returned to u, once she returned to u then no problem. So tell your daughter to handle the boy wisely.
You support her then guide properly and make her to concentrate on the study.
I think I am right.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 02 October 2009
I fully agree with Nandkumar and all other experts in ur matter.
