Harrassment.
B.swarnalatha
(Querist) 22 May 2012
This query is : Resolved
gud morning sir.i actually want to tell the exact story. we are 5 children ,1 brother and 4 sisters to our parents.my parents have put all my 3 sisters in st.anns school and they put me in my mothers school where there is no good english foundation.my mother was a teacher in the same school.once when i was in 9th class we did one exhibition and all my friends have got participation certificates except myself even after repeatedly requesting my class teacher . then during our childhood days all our sisters and brother used to attend vacation bible school in church for summer and i was the best quizzer in quiz competition but never the church announced and gave me prize except in 1 year they gave eventhough i was winning for many years. this is the second episode in my life.thirdly i secured first prize in my B.ed and i was not given the prize at all.then i secured gold medal in my M.com but again i didnt get my medal in my hand ,it was not informed about the convocation at all. i got a seat in my B.ed because my mother was requesting the principal for a seat.then it so happened that i did my MA english and still i didnt get my certificate in my hand.
we were living in railway quarters then we shifted to our own house and there after finishing my pg i started to work in wesley college which was a sister concern of my mothers school.i was a child with lot of confidence and i was helping out my mother in all chores which i am still doing for her right now. then my father used to come home only at my bath time only after going for a walk. the point is that since i used to help my mom in the household activities she used to give me work one after the other and leaving with no sufficient time to even go the washroom ,hence i was going in tension and comig out in tension,never was i relaxed.so may be i developed little gas and i used to again go during my bathtime ,which was disturbed by my father,but that time i used to go freely because nobody used to bother. so these were the things happening before my marriage.then after getting married i dont know who taught my in-laws ,they kept on sending somebody or the other during my morning washroom time and this went on for about 10 years leaving me with absolute no privacy at all.this is going on evenow.now sir just to disturb me like this they went on following me to whichever house i shifted.and in the process my husband died.and because of this kind of thing i resigned my job,thinking that i will have peace in another job but again in my new job also it happened the same.now il be going back to college and again my in-laws may teach the servant to come and disturb me.the point is that i am living in my moms house and here also the same problem is arising.my mother wantedly puts tamarind in my tea so that it wont get digested,she pack chapathis by putting them on pan without washing it ,she hates if i go out for walking,she is 70 plus and goes on comparing with me.now as sainath sir has said that it may be a psychological problem ,my humble request is that i am planning to gofor video recording and then we can see who is the culprit.please advise as to who could be behind me very hard so that i am not comfortable with english language because of the creation that they are doing.kindly advise.i have lost my husband in the game and they are making me incapacitated to earn for my living ,is it justified at all.help is needed.
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 22 May 2012
Again you have changed the thread,come back with your query in the first thread
