how law can help me
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Anonymous
(Querist) 03 February 2015
This query is : Resolved
Hello sirs,
I m 39, mother of 16 year old boy , got involved with a 29 yr.old guy , through social media . My husband came to know about this , and tried to rehabilite me in our married life again , , as he does it 10yrs before when I was involved with two guys at that time , but he forgave me and accepted me again , and too keep myself busy , I started my beauty parlour , which was very successful . and ... I don't know why I got involved again in this affair , and did not respond to my husband's efforts to rehabilite our married life . ( he took me to the psychiatric also ).. but I was, madly involved with that guy and on his promise to marry me , I left my husband's house , and start leaving with my mother since last 6 months . ( I also sent a notice to my husband asking for divorce but he didn't responded yet . ) . I have started my parlour again with the financial help of that guy ... and ... now he is not ready to marry me .
The fool , I m , now from nowhere , I don't know what to do .. can I sue that guy as he took my physical advantage by promising to get married But .. now refusing by saying that my parents will not accept u ... and also looking forward to get married with some other girl ., but ... wants to continue with me and also will help me financially ..when ever I want .... plz. Guide me ... how law can help me , where I ruined my life by myself ..
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 03 February 2015
Hello sirs,
I m 39, mother of 16 year old boy , got involved with a 29 yr.old guy , through social media . My husband came to know about this , and tried to rehabilite me in our married life again , , as he does it 10yrs before when I was involved with two guys at that time , but he forgave me and accepted me again , and too keep myself busy , I started my beauty parlour , which was very successful . and ... I don't know why I got involved again in this affair , and did not respond to my husband's efforts to rehabilite our married life . ( he took me to the psychiatric also ).. but I was, madly involved with that guy and on his promise to marry me , I left my husband's house , and start leaving with my mother since last 6 months . ( I also sent a notice to my husband asking for divorce but he didn't responded yet . ) . I have started my parlour again with the financial help of that guy ... and ... now he is not ready to marry me .
The fool , I m , now from nowhere , I don't know what to do .. can I sue that guy as he took my physical advantage by promising to get married But .. now refusing by saying that my parents will not accept u ... and also looking forward to get married with some other girl ., but ... wants to continue with me and also will help me financially ..when ever I want .... plz. Guide me ... how law can help me , where I ruined my life by myself ..
ajay sethi
(Expert) 03 February 2015
anonymous query no reply .
Guest
(Expert) 03 February 2015
Law does not help without sufficient evidence in support of the events. However, if your story is true, consult some local lawyer and discuss in detail along with whtever evidence you have in your support.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 03 February 2015
Ask your self what made you to get sexually engaged time and again with persons other than your husband.Your husband condoned your adultery time and again despite you deed not pay honor to his generosity.
You have no right to sue person with whom you are sexually indulged while you are married.You well know you are married and can not marry unless divorced,then where is
the question of false promise by him.
Law is very merciful on you as it keeps you immuned from being charged and tried for adultery.So thank the law.
Your husband can file FIR and charge him with adultery for which he may be prosecuted and that shall give your husband
to get divorced from you.
As a matter of policy we do not answer anonymous queries but facts stated by you prompted me to attend it.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 04 February 2015
Hello sirs, my name is mittal . I m from gujarat .
I m 39, mother of 16 year old boy , got involved with a 29 yr.old guy , through social media . My husband came to know about this , and tried to rehabilite me in our married life again , , as he does it 10yrs before when I was involved with two guys at that time , but he forgave me and accepted me again , and too keep myself busy , I started my beauty parlour , which was very successful . and ... I don't know why I got involved again in this affair , and did not respond to my husband's efforts to rehabilite our married life . ( he took me to the psychiatric also ).. but I was, madly involved with that guy and on his promise to marry me , I left my husband's house , and start leaving with my mother since last 6 months . ( I also sent a notice to my husband asking for divorce but he didn't responded yet . ) . I have started my parlour again with the financial help of that guy ... and ... now he is not ready to marry me .
The fool , I m , now from nowhere , I don't know what to do .. can I sue that guy as he took my physical advantage by promising to get married But .. now refusing by saying that my parents will not accept u ... and also looking forward to get married with some other girl ., but ... wants to continue with me and also will help me financially ..when ever I want ....can I ask for maintance from my husband ..? What will be my responcibility towards my son ( he lives with his father and not even talking to me ) ... plz guide me ...
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 04 February 2015
You are incorrigible and no person can correct you.
Pray to God for His Forgiveness andfor your mental peace.
Guest
(Expert) 04 February 2015
In adultery case, you can't ask even a single paise as maintenance from your husband. Better be satisfied with your present lot by forgetting about your responsibility towards your son also to allow your husband and son live in peace.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 05 February 2015
thank u all for guidance .
Guest
(Expert) 05 February 2015
You are welcome, but with genuine problems for solution.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate 
(Expert) 07 February 2015
You have been advised well, think about your future atleast now onwards and live the life to the mark because such lusts will never cease until you become physically tired and forced to give up owing to heath conditions, better wake up now itself.
