How to get divorce when my family and wife is not ready for it?
lost in the world
(Querist) 26 July 2012
This query is : Resolved
I am 29 years old married male, resident of a small village of Rajasthan.Six years ago, my parents show me a girl and asked me how is she? I casually said she is good, without knowing that they are asking me this for marriage purpose.When I came to know this I refused to marry that girl and called her father and herself and told them that I don't want to marry. Still I had to get marry because of family pressure.
But after marriage also I never lived with my wife.We don't have any relation.We are not living together since we married. She says that she is here because of my property.But she is pretends to be an ideal daughter in law infront of my parents. She said that she will make me out of my own house and will live with my parents. And she is doing this only. I live in a rented flat in Jaipur and she lives with my parents.
Now I want to take divorce so that we both can move a head in our lives. But she is not ready.She wants to stay with my family forever. Also, my parents are not with me in this decision. Infact they say that she is their daughter and I am not their Son anymore.
But I want to get free from this relationship as its been 6 years and there is no point in being into this relation.Its just for name.
Is there any law which can help me out in taking divorce when my parents and my so called wife is not ready for it.
Please help me
ajay sethi
(Expert) 26 July 2012
you shpuld not have married her if you were not keen on the marriage . the fact that your parents are happy with her and treat her like a daughter speaks volumes about your behaviour .
if she is not ready for divorce it may take you years to get a divorce and in the bargain your parents will disn herit you .
accept her as your wife .
lost in the world
(Querist) 26 July 2012
Dear Ajay,
My parents are just looking for there fake Reputation only. No such liking is there.
And how I can accept her when even she is not ready to live with me.
I have mentioned that she has made me out of my own house.
She neither wants to live with me nor want to give divorce.
What should I do in this situation?
Advocate Ravinder
(Expert) 16 September 2013
You have not revealed your religion. Assuming that you are hindu. Hindu Marraige is a sacred thing, but you are making it a mockery. Past is past, now decide whether you want to lead marital life or want to divorce. If you want to lead marital life file RCR petn otherwise divroce petn on the grounds of desertion and cruelty, let us see, wait for the result, it may take 4 to 5 years.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 16 September 2013
we had replied to this query more than a year back . what new facts have emerged now ? we stand by our opinion given a year back
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 16 September 2013
GO TO YOUR PARENTS HOME.
TRY COHABITATION.
ID SHE REFUSE, PROPERLY KEEP IT'S RECORDS, AND FILE DIVORCE UNDER THE CRUELTY GROUND, AS SHE REFUSED TO LEAD MARITAL LIFE.
IF SHE ALLOW YOU, ENJOY YOUR LIFE. BE WITH YOUR WIFE AND YOUR FAMILY, AND PROPER YOUR FAMILY.
U R ALREADY 30 AND IF START DIV / REMARRIAGE, YOU MAY END IT AT UR AGE OF 50.
