HOW TO USE RCR BEST
GAGANDEP
(Querist) 15 March 2010
This query is : Resolved
i got married in Feb 2008 & got a son after one year. My wife do not like my mother & registered a false complaint in women cell in Sep 2009 of dowrey & Physical assault on me & my family. I got seperated from my family as per the mutual compromise in women cell. My wife donot allow me to meet me my widow mother & threats me if i do so she will again sue me & my faimily u/s 498A. She again filed a complaint to police of dowry & physical assault, FIR was not registered our AB application was also rejected, it resulted again a public compromise again. In Feb 2010, she alongwith his faimily members injured me & compaint is registered aginst them u/s IPC 323.
A) How can i get rid of her, if she dont agree for mutual divorce.
B) How can i use RCR in my favour.
C) Is there any way to protect my family u/s 498A, as she is using it as her strongest weapon.
D) My income is Rs. 8000p.m what will be the monthly compensation to her, she is a house wife.
R.R. KRISHNAA
(Expert) 15 March 2010
Dear gagandep,
I am not speaking about RCR. But my advice would be to simply negotiate the problems with your wife and her family and let her clearly know that there is no way to continue the matrimonial life and convince them for a mutual break off. If you keep on litigating with your wife with RCR or anyother legal provisions your wife may come out with many other legal provisions and ultimately both of you will loose peace. Life is short. Try to live peacefully. It appears to me that your problems have crossed the extreme limit. In my opinion it all lies on your talent to negotiate the terms convincingly with your wife to go seperately without troubling each other in future.
GAGANDEP
(Querist) 16 March 2010
Dear Krishna & Raj ji,
Thanks for ur advise. I am trying hard to convince her for mutual divorce, but she is interested to come back to my monther's home again with ill motive desires. Now she has become habitual to walk into police stations & her motive is to get us behind bars to collect maximum funds from us. Please advise if she does not agree for mutual break off...as i cannot even think to resettle with her.
Santosh Kumar.K
(Expert) 16 March 2010
dear gagandeep
let me know wheteger mother is residing in her own home.is it a rented home.what is the status of complaint against them which u fileed against them u/s 323 ipc for assaulting you.where is your wife residing now.is your mother is working somewhere.pls let me know or contact me on my no. 9871800615
GAGANDEP
(Querist) 16 March 2010
Dear Santosh,
Mother is living in her own house & the house is owned by mother. She is serving in a educational college. Wife is residing at her parent's home from 1st march 10. The rented house is locked and keys are with my wife. So i am staying in my monther's house. I am not in touch with my wife. The complaint against them is pending, but no FIR was registered against them u/s 323. Police say they cannot arrest them without FIR as 323 is not serious offence.
