Husband leave me and not even ready to speak with me

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 27 September 2024 This query is : Resolved
On July 7, 2024, I got married. From the beginning, we have misunderstandings because of marriage arrangements. After marriage, he has not shown love and affection to me. He spoke rudely with me. After 5 days of marriage, he told me that I was not fit for us. After one week, his brother scolded him because he treated me without respect and he asked me to separate. After that, our family asked for marriage registration, but he said that he had a lot of work so not able to register for marriage now. But our family asked one more time about registration. So he got angered and one day he cut his hand with a blade because he told me that he lost his job. It became a family problem. After one month he went to Abu Dhabi, he was not ready to speak with me and avoided me finally, he was not ready to leave me and asking separation and it was a big problem for both family side. He does not allow me to stay in his home. Not even give a single rupee for my survival and blackmailing if anyone is convinced that he will commit suicide. Still, now he has not yet answered my phone calls and messages. He hurts me a lot. What can I do? I am in full depression.

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T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Expert) 27 September 2024
You can file a case asking for monthly maintenance from him.
You can file a DV case asking for the relief of protection, residential rights and once again maintenance and compensation for the acts of cruelty done to you.
Alternately you can rope in elders from both the sides to talk about it and reconcile the differences between both

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 27 September 2024
Thank you sir for your consideration.

kavksatyanarayana (Expert) 27 September 2024
You shall talk with him, his elders and your elders and ask them to settle the issue. Otherwise, you have to approach a civil court for your maintenance.

T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Expert) 28 September 2024
you may take steps to talk to elders from his side to talk to the elders from your side which should include your parents and his parents and reconcile the issue what ever is hindering or impending.

Dr. J C Vashista (Expert) 29 September 2024
Instead of resolving dispute / issue through legal process, which is bound to destroy the married life accoridingly it is advisable to get the problem(s) resolved through society involving eleders/ relatives /common friends /marriage counsellor etc. as convinient and possible.

Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 03 October 2024
Such like persons are incorrigible. Meet woman Police station.

P. Venu

(Expert) 22 October 2024
It is a good sign that some among the husband's family are supporting you. Try to get the issue sorted out amicably through them. Given the attitude of the husband, divorce through mutual consent appears to be the ideal solution.