Husband not happy with relation

Ash (Querist) 06 March 2017 This query is : Resolved
I am married for last 8 years. My husband is a doctor and I am a trainer. My husband is from a rural family with his parents in the village. I meet him through a common friend and we started to date each other.His parents never liked the relationship.we went ahead to marry with our own earnings. Exactly after the 3rd day of our marriage, he went and told my mom that he did not want to continue this relation. After that, he has been rude and fighting. I thought that as time goes on things would change. meanwhile, there was a lady who proposed him who was working with him. It was two years that we kept trying to make our relation. I meet with an accident and he left me after the surgery and did not meet me for 2 months. then he asked for forgiveness and continued the relation. Later when I was carrying for my son he again fought and left me. During the same time the lady called me and stated that I was the one who was intervening in their relation. When i asked him he said there was nothing b/w them. My son was born and time passed by. When my son was 2 years we left to a differnt state. he did not want me to come over there. i still took a transfer and went to stay with him. all the time he kept in contact with this lady. My son is 5 years old now. he hardly spends time with me or my son. he sometimes taunts at me and does not bother what my son does. He is always on the phone or watches tv. He does not speak and keeps on commenting. There was an instance where he told his mom that I did not provide him food and do not take care of him, which I overhead. He continuously abuses me time and again. I have several times landed to the lawyer for divorce, but did not find the courage to apply may be for my son. I am currently not working. I don't know what to do. My son likes him, but now I fear that if I keep fighting with him them my son will suffer. Planning to see a counselor but not sure whether he will join me.Please suggest

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Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 06 March 2017
he is requesting for an invitations to thana in a DV case. You are not helping him.

Ms.Usha Kapoor (Expert) 06 March 2017
YOU HARDEN YOUR MIND FOR MCD AND BID ADIEU
TO HIM FINALLY AND TAKE MAINTENANCE /ALIMONY BOTH FOR YOU AND YOUR SON IN LUMPSUM BY A SEPERATE WRITTEN AGREEMENT CURRENTLY FROM YOUR ESTRANGED HUSBAND.. START LEADING A FRESH LIFE OR TURN OVER A NEW LEAF AND PURSUE HIGHER EDUCATION AND GET HOLD OF SOME GAINFUL EMPLOYMENT BRING UP YOUR SON single handedly LIVING WITH YOUR Parents. Keep up your self respect and dignity.

Guest (Expert) 06 March 2017
Practically Speaking the Life of Children of Divorcees/Single Parent is miserable.You could never find a Perfect Man and At least for the Sake of Child you should not break your Family and Correct your husband with your genuine love and affection.

Adv. Yogen Kakade (Expert) 07 March 2017
I agree with mr. rajkumar.. try to find the personal issues between you both.. take a help of a Councillor.. if he does not change then give him a threat of legal action.. If you decide later that it can not be mended back then collect the evidences of his affair.. it shall help you in filing divorce.. many other legal remedies are available for you even at current situation including DV.

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