husband's mental imbalance due to wife's domination
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Anonymous
(Querist) 22 March 2015
This query is : Resolved
Warm regards to the learned fellows over here.
Well a very close friend of mine is severely suffering from his wife's consistent tortures, physical mental abuses every nnow and then during 13 years of marriage life. This has adversely affected my friend's present being making him totally inactive. He is lackinng moral support from the family. His wife is very mucch shrewd and wicked, hyperly egoistic, a money minded lady, who bbelieves and lives on illogical and self made false assumptionns and keeps on torturing him. The height of situation camme at last whn she scratched his face, gave bite on his fingers, hit a heal of sandal on his private parts. She is so money mminded, that she wilfullyy wishes her husband to be inactive I have been the witness of her wickedness. She tried to use me emotionally against her husband misusing my only nature to keep the couple united. Ater realizing this fact, i stayed away. Her ego got hurt and she started torturing me as well by weird names, false allegations, abuses, threats which are still on. The side effect is that i have become a heart patient, got a heart attack due to severe stress of torture created by her over me as well. After this the inncident of hitting to my friend, my soft natured friend is so mmuch scared, that he is into severe depression, bbecoming suicidal sometimes. It has become risky to leave him alone. Unfortunnately, his other fammily members are in favor of the wife and try to prove him an insane though he is actually not, whose academic record had always been at top. He wants to get rid of her.
I hv the photographs of the wounds she gave to him.
I have heard divorce procedure takes so much of time as per Indian Law.
Friend has already approached to police station, but due to his 'so called reputed' family's pressure, who is having political backing, the case is suppressed. The police has been told that he is mentally imbalanced, so police replied that law is in women's favour, there is no optionn but to file a writ pitition for divorce.
Please advise suitably. Is there any law in india who can save such sufferer??
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 22 March 2015
I would like to admit that my friend has always mmade best efforts to compromise, let go and stoodby her whennever she was in need. He has always supported her morally, emotionally. It is to be noted that due to some deficiencies in wife, the couple has no child.
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 22 March 2015
In India There is no Law for protection of Males from domestic voilence. If wife beats you black and blue then it's her pleasure and when you protest her it's your Horror.
Counter attack is not the order as it lands the husband in more trouble. 13yrs of torture is too long a time for a male to bear,but there are not applicable laws for the male to file DV against the wife . I don't say that he has to bear the torture for the rest of his life. lack of children also could be one of the cause for torture.There are some organisations dealing in such cases,they could be of some help.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 22 March 2015
1) your friend has to file for petition for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty . mention the incidents narrated by you to prove wife torture .
2) contested divorce proceedings take around 5 years to be disposed of
3)further your friend should visit a psychiatrist and undergo treatment for mental problems if any
