I don't want to give divorce to my wife. how can it be possible?
Ujjal Baruah
(Querist) 21 September 2012
This query is : Resolved
I am a Hindu guy from Assam and have been married before 2 and 1/2 years ago. My wife is a very good, lovable and a very kind hearted girl. She loves me like anything but now she is not in mood to listen anything to me due to a few mistakes of mine, my wife left me since 3 months back. I am repenting a lot for my deeds and promised my wife that I will never and ever do such things in during that time. But still she didn't listened to me and went away, I am trying to find her a lot where she is staying but was unsuccessful and she is not even in her parents home, as her parents didn't accept our relation due to caste issue. Her phone number is also switch off from two and a half month. After a two months of the case I got to know that she had filed a petition for divorce. I don't want to give her divorce as I can't live without her and I too love her a lot. The court of Guwahati, Assam had given a date for both us to appear for the case but she didn't appeared on the first hearing date. Please advice me what should I do to bring her back. I don't want to lose her. She is everything for me.
And can she get a divorce without my support, if I don't want to give divorce to her at any cost.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 21 September 2012
you cant force your wife to stay with you . what are the misakes you have made? did you have an extra marital affair.
you can file petition for RCR but you cnat force her to stay with you .
if she is adamant take divorce by mutual consent
Ujjal Baruah
(Querist) 21 September 2012
Not exactly an extra marital affair but yea had conversations with a girl for 7 days in the first week of June'12 over the phone/messages but as a friend and had some non-veg sharing's. And that she had recorded everything on her phone. But unfortunately that girl was known to my wife as she is her student. When I realized my faults I stopped calling/messaging her and she too, but after a period of 1 month she miss called me and that was observed by my wife. My wife was known to that number and she started suspecting and charged that girl. The girl then had said everything to my wife and also had shown the messages and the recordings to my wife. After that day (20 July'12), my wife didn't came home. Please suggest me what should I do to bring her back, as I love her a lot and can give everything to make her happy. Will never and ever will do such things in my life again. That is my promise to myself as well as to God.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 21 September 2012
your wife has not forgiven you of the affair. visit a marriage counsellor if possible .if she does not agree then agree for divorce by mutual consent
