i want your advice on the following matter.
Amit Oza
(Querist) 01 November 2009
This query is : Resolved
i want your advice on the following matter.
there was a arrange marrigae ,before the marriage boy had informed the girl
parents that we want the graduation to be completed and she has to work
afte marriage when the husband told her to work she said she dose not want to
work ,after regularly telling her she did job and started taunting the husband that
he is forcing her to work.
After 6 mths of marriage she went to her parents palce and dint return
after 6 months she filed a NC that the husband family is demanding dowery of 50 lakand the
mother in law is betting her.
the case was transfered to mahila takrar nivaran kendra.the officer there heard both the parties
even she asked both the parties that whether they has sexual relation,they told that they has very less
sexual relation ship.a settlement was made that the girl was not abuse her husband and her family.
and husband will not force her to study.but one thing i would like to mention here that the office in charge
gave a condition that the boy has to earn 25000 if he want both to stay seperately.
and also informed the girl that she wants the recorded proff thet husbands parents are abusing her.
If husband is not intrested in having sexual relation ship with his wife ,the wife alledge that she will
complain to mahila takrar that her husband is not obeying the settlement process,
in these circumtances what can the girl do.can she again make false complain.how can she legeally frame
the husband and their family
and one more thing can the lady officer put a condition of earning to the husband
adv. rajeev ( rajoo )
(Expert) 01 November 2009
Mahila takrar nivarana kendra is not neither the court nor has got any authority to put the conditions on the husband. These Mahila takrar nivarna kndras are NGOs I think. NOw a day such orgnizations are acting themselves as if they are courts.
Any conditions put by mahila takrar nivarna kendra is not binding on the husband, only has got power to put a conditions on the husband or to the wife.
Lady officer cannot put conditon of earning to the husband.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 01 November 2009
Your main portion of quarry is to know what accusations wife can make in the circumstances told by you. I am of the view that both husband and wife should instead of making any accusations against each other should honestly try to adjust with each other failing which the wife has best opportunity to avail DV Act instead of making any application elsewhere. This Act is a full proof Nivaran of the dispute as mentioned by you.
yogesh
(Expert) 01 November 2009
concillatory bodies can concilliate the matter but cannot abuse the process or infringement of basic rights
Srivathsan
(Expert) 02 November 2009
If the wife takes it up in the appropriate judicial forum, denial of conjugal rights is punishable upto 1 year imprisonment or rs 10000 penalty or both
Dr. Jyothi Vishwanath
(Expert) 03 November 2009
the lady officer cannot direct you to earn 25000. if you are not interested in continuing the relationship, you can file a petition for judicial separation.
