Maintainace case
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Anonymous
(Querist) 15 July 2018
This query is : Open
Sir
I am from chandigarh and i registered my case for the maintenance in punjab and haryana court in the year july 2017. The court granted me the maintance of rs 18000/- pm.
But till now we havent got anything from my husband. My lawyer only take dates after dates and he doesnt show interest in the case and never take me along with him to the hearing. He told me that judge has refused to sign the next summon just because my husband lawyer is the secretary of bar council and he left me alone to face the judge to sign petition.
Kindly tell me what to do... As when i say smthing or tell him to take me to court.. He often gets too angry... And i am very worried because till now the FIR is also not registered though i have all the proofs of dowary and dv. What to do... Where to go... Who will help... Plz guide us.
Vijay Raj Mahajan
(Expert) 15 July 2018
Change lawyer that is best solution for the matter for now.
The advocate who is misbehaving with client especially lady client has no right to be continued in the case.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 15 July 2018
Pls post with your ID and not as AQ and you can get many replies.
Your ID does not mean your email id or phone number and don’t post these also.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 15 July 2018
You can and you must certainly change your lawyer.
Approach/consult your own another very able LOCAL senior counsel of unshakable repute and integrity specializing in Family/civil matters and well versed with LOCAL applicable rules/laws and having successful track record…. and worth his/her salt…….to help you.
Check for such counsel at LOCAL Family/civil courts, HC.
Guest
(Expert) 16 July 2018
Best is to join husband and apologize to him. You cannot get money through court like ATM machine.
ITs a hopless system. Not all men are Hrithik Roashan to pay in crores just like that. You might have invested 50 lakhs in marriage, now expecting 20000 per month for next 70 years. Do you know how much that amount will be?
Rs. 16800000/=
Do you think your husband will pay you that kind of money? Forget your husband, if you are asked to pay 20000 per month to your husband will you pay it for next 70 years?
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 16 July 2018
I agree with expert Mr. Ramoji Kumar to a limited extent with regard to reconcile with your husband and enjoy your married life.
However, if you are keen to get maintenance through legal process you will have to change your lawyer, if you are dissatisfied with his/her ability and performance.
Guest
(Expert) 16 July 2018
You cahnge the lawyer you will pay new fees to new lawyer. Old fees will be gone.
If husband is defaulter, then the husband can be issued notice of execution.
First this notice should be delivered to the husband. This is first hurdle for oyur advocate.
I did not get the notice at all. I was out of town. Address not found due to bribing of postman.
Dasti service is next step. Police are corrupt everyboyd knos. They will take this execution notice by hand and go, they can also be managed.
Then coems new hurdle. Publishing in paper regarding notification.
I feel tired typying, hope yo uhave energy to run around court, police, laweyer, new lawyer, publishing house. Instead of doing al lthis you will feel it was better that you did not marry at all.
So what you tink, adjusting with husband was easy or doing all this????
