Marriage
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 06 January 2018
This query is : Resolved
I am in relationship with my mother's mother's brother's son for 10 years now. We both are 28 years old.have tried to convince the family a lot but they are threatening of imprisonment if we marry each other.
Please help according to hindu marriage act my relationship is in sapinda relationship or is it under prohibited relationship. Can any lawyer provide a sapinda tree with my example.
It would be a great help.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 06 January 2018
Please help
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 07 January 2018
You nowhere stated whether within hindu such marriage is allowed in customary law prevalent in your society.
Guest
(Expert) 07 January 2018
It seems as if your mother, mother's mother, and her son had been keeping their eyes totally closed for the last 10 years by not having noticed your affairs.
Anyway, you may expect the laws change in your favour when both of you would turn to 82 years of age.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 07 January 2018
I am not a lawyer..I don't know the rules of 3g hindu marriage act.if anyone is aware then only post your answers . Redundant reply is not expected.
P. Venu
(Expert) 07 January 2018
Any suggestion depends upon the religion and/or the community you belong and if there is a custom that permits the marriage. Anyhow, no Law provides for imprisonment for marriage within the prohibited degree or sapinda relationship; it is only that the marriage would be void among the couple i.e. the husband and wife are not entitled for protection of Law against each other.
Guest
(Expert) 07 January 2018
Ms. Anonymous Querist,
Like you, the experts also do not expect redundant queries.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 07 January 2018
AQ so NO reply
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 07 January 2018
Pls post with your ID and you can get many replies..................
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 07 January 2018
All involved are Hindu?
Is there any proven custom that allows such marriages in your community.
In your next thread with your ID do mention these details.
I ask these details in all threads...
Guest
(Expert) 07 January 2018
Vague query cannot fetch any solution.
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Kumar Doab
(Expert) 07 January 2018
All involved are Hindu? Is there any proven custom that allows such marriages in your community. In your next thread with your ID do mention these details. I ask these details in all threads...
Usually as
'It is believed that you are Hindu.
Confirm!'
Guest
(Expert) 07 January 2018
Funny behaviour of Mr. Kumar Doab (unreal name) and a fake expert! At first he declared no reply for AQ (anonymous query). But even after such a decision not to reply, he could not shun his lust for number playing game and posted three more vague and irrelevant posts just to add scores to his credit.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 07 January 2018
For ur information since I am asking for hindu marriage act that means I am hindu. Secondly i mentioned the relation path of both the boy and the girl.
Thirdly i asked whether this relation is treated as void or not this was my question.
If no one knows then y are u ppl wasting time here? ??????Don't have any work?
But here I find people are interested to know the name .May i know whether to know the law name matters?
If this forum is just for time pass then I am really sorry I think I am in a wrong window.
And jigyasu sorry to tell you please never ever insult anyone without knowing the about the person and the situation he or she is facing. You never know life may start laughing at you.
And kumar doab i really want to know how does it matter to understand a law we need to provide name and id? Law is for anyone anonymous ...So i thought genuine ppl are here but this forum is just for bullshit ppl..
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 08 January 2018
This forum is not a time pass.
Many persons have benefitted from advise givenhere.
But no advise can be worthwhile without basic facts. Anmyone having slight sympathy with youmay not be advising anything without knowing full facts.
No doubt you stated you are Hindu but you have nowhere stated whether such marriage is permissible in Hindus as per customary law prevalent in your society and area.
Any way no no point in clarifying this facts because after such disrespectful response no expert (unpaid) will be giving any charitable advise to you.
Guest
(Expert) 08 January 2018
@ Mr. Sudhir Kumar,
I WONDER TO SEE QUITE A VAGUE & EVASIVE POST OF YOURS, APPEARING SEEMING TO BE THESAVIOUR OF Mr. KUMAR DOAB!
Apparently, when the querist has come with clarification as against the vague questions of Mr. Kumar Doab, you have come forward to his rescue, when he made multiples of his very vague posts, even knowing well that the querist specifically asked her query under the provisions of Hindu Marriage Act, at first he refused to reply on the plea of no reply to anonymous query, then asked, "All involved are Hindu?" Still not fed with his hunger to play a number game, he repeated the same query, "All involved are Hindu?" But there was still no satisfaction of his lust to make irrelevant post, he again asked her to confirm and stated, "It is believed that you are Hindu."
Question arises, was Mr. Kumar Doab that he could not see a very clear bifg sentence about Hindu Marriage Act, when the querist specifically asked, "Please help according to hindu marriage act my relationship is in sapinda relationship or is it under prohibited relationship"?
Another question arises, when he believed all are Hindus, why he could not answer her question. Apparently, he did not know even ABC of the Act, but continued to make vague and irrelevant posts as of his habit to play a number game.
NOW QUESTION ARISES ABOUT YOU, TO WHAT EXTENT YOU CAN SHELTER AND SAVE HIM TO JUSTIFY MR. KUMAR DOAB AND HIS VAGUE AND IRRELEVANT POSTS.
A POINT OF COMMONSENSE ARISES, HAD THERE BEEN ANY CHANCE PER CUSTOMARY LAW PREVALENT IN HER SOCIETY, HE WOULD NOT HAVE ASKED QUESTION BASED ON HINDU ACT. SHE WOULD STRAIGHT HAVE GONE TO HER PARENTS OR SIBLINGS TO FIX THE MARRIAGE, AND WOULD NOT HAVE COME TO YOU TO ASK HER QUESTION.
now a question for you, COULD NOT YOU UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF A VERY STRAIGHT FORWARD QUESTION "Please help according to hindu marriage act my relationship is in sapinda relationship or is it under prohibited relationship," WHICH SHE PUT?
It is not understood, what type of expertise people show by making merely vague & irrelevant posts! BUT THE BIGGEST QUESTION ARISES OUT OF YOUR OWN POST, what prompted you to come to the rescue of an imposter, Mr. Kumar Doab?
