Matrimonial case
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 25 February 2018
This query is : Open
Sir,
I got married 7 years ago, but due to my nature of job as iam working in defence services i was not always available at home. This was known to my wife before marriage she has done her mba and was eager to work but as i was posted in guwahati in year 2011 i asked her to accompany me but she refused and even denied to stay with my parents and returned to her maternal home and started job. After repeated attempts made by me and family she did not come back she often come and go back as she was working in delhi and my home is in Kanpur, but never agreed to stay with me she demanded me to leave my job and leave my parents and stay with her in Delhi. After going through finally i filed divorce case in return she filed 125 and 498a from buxar, she aslo got the divorce case transferred to buxar and written complaints against me in my office. Now currently i have taken bail from patna high court for my self and my parents. Recently few days back I appeared for 498a case proceeding and judge asked her to fo along with me and some how she came after pressure from judge. But again her behaviour has become more aggressive she misuse this situation and often threatens me and my parents about the consequences of 498a and made our life miserable. Please suggest me what should be next course of action. So i can be relieved as she says she neither wants to b with me bor she wants to give me divorce. My life is hell. Please suggest me some legal assistance as what should be my next course of action.
Thank you
Vijay Raj Mahajan
(Expert) 25 February 2018
Pay her and get rid of her.
This seems to be difficult for you to understand but fact is that wives of defence personals are not leaving husbands so easily because to get handsome amount from them is not so easy. Basically these wives' accept heaven's but are offered peanuts by their husbands who are defense personals.
You believe me or not but this hard reality.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 25 February 2018
I am ready to pay her but she is not putting forth any amount. Even after mediation she did not mentioned any amount. Paying money is not an issue for me, but this daily dose of torture and fear of fiture has made my life hell.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 25 February 2018
I am ready to pay her but she is not putting forth any amount. Even after mediation she did not mentioned any amount. Paying money is not an issue for me, but this daily dose of torture and fear of fiture has made my life hell.
Advocate Kappil Cchandna
(Expert) 26 February 2018
Sir,
Gather some concrete evidence .... show before the court and take divorce on the ground of cruelty .....
Paying is not the solution, solution is to come on front foot and make her stand before the court as if she is responsible for whatever has happened ....
Warm Regards
Kapil Chandna Advocate
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Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 27 February 2018
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Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 15 March 2018
Sir my name is Vivek
