mental harassment
Mayank Parmar
(Querist) 07 November 2010
This query is : Resolved
i was in a relation with a girl for around 8 months and both of were committed and wanted to get married. But it was decided that first we will know each other and if anyone of us felt that our relation won't be a success we shall directly discuss it and we are free to discontinue the relation. I even talked about this to her mother that we are trying to know each other and if we feel that we can live together then we will approach to them for marriage and she agreed to that.
We used to have a fight frequently [only verbal fight]. And i told her that i'm not comfortable with this debate kind of conversation and if it continues then i won't continue. My x-girlfriend said that every thing will be ok with time. But there was no change and we started to have verbal fight every now and then. This made me uncomfortable and i directly told her that i want to quit and gave her the reason. She made every possible attempt so that we may continue but i said i don't want to continue and finally we decided to move on with our life.
Due to excess mental stress i was admitted in hospital for 3 days, and i have every document regarding that. But i never blamed her and i didn't even bother her or her family and neither my parents or known ones gave any trouble to them regarding my medical situation.
But after a month my x-girlfriend sends me sms saying "i love u come back". I replied that we have decided on things and now there is no use on discussing things again. Next day she calls me again saying the same thing and my reply was same.
On that very day she send me sms and i replied to them but then she started misbehaving and called me "gay" and "late mr. parmar", upon getting such sms i didn't reply and she stopped sending sms after sometime. still i didn't complain about it as i thought she is upset thats why she is using foul words.
At night around 11:15 her mom calls me up and says that her daughter [x-girlfriend] is in hospital and she kept on blaming me for that. I tried to tell her that what went wrong among us but she was not at all ready to accept her daughter's mistakes but she put everything on me. Finally i kept quiet and she kept on talking. She said that if anything happens to her daughter then she will ruin my life and not let me live peacefully and kept on giving me such threats and then disconnected the phone.
Sir, i want to know that is it legally possible that she can sue me over that? That girl and me have not met each other till now we used to either chat on web or talk on phone. There has been no physical contact among us. So case of physical harresment can't be filed against me. Is there any other legal action that she can take against me. Doctors have adviced me not to take any kind of stress and i'm in much pressure due to their behaviour. So is there any legal action that i can take against them?
If any case is registered by anyone of us then who has a strong side, that girl or me?
I'm waiting for your precious advice and show me the correct way out of this situation. Thanks in advance.
Regards,
Mayank Parmar.
[that girl and me are students and both are over 18]
s.subramanian
(Expert) 08 November 2010
it just like any other friendship. It does not create any legal bond between yourselves which can be enforced in law. You need not worry much about it.
Arun Kumar Bhagat
(Expert) 11 November 2010
If someone commits suicide then the person named in FIR will be in initial trouble but ultimately he will be free.
