Mental harrashment
Guest
(Querist) 24 April 2016
This query is : Resolved
hello all. I am married since 3yrs and i have a baby boy who is 7 months old. now i am living in my parents house for post delivery care. since i moved to my parents house my mother in law has a very bad influence on my husband. before having a baby she was completely against a girl baby and she always mentally tortured me saying girls are tension, they run away when they reach their teenage. after having a boy i thought she will stop but now she has taken a different turn and asking my husband to leave me.. 15 days back my husband sent me a threatening message saying " your worst times have started, i ll dig your grave, and claim my son, may your soul rest in peace" because i sent a simple forward msg to his mother saying "daughters are not tension, daughters are equal to ten sons". from 15 days me and my parents tried contacting him, but he s not responding nor picking calls. my father in law is a Rtd.ACP, i spoke to him too but he is keeping quiet in support of his wife and his son is not turning up. i want my husband back. how do i deal with this sitution. pls help me
Gopal Verma Advocate-on-Record
(Expert) 24 April 2016
It is between you and your husband at this point of time forget about the rest. Consult a lawyer and file conjugal rights and other proceedings so as to put things straight. sooner you do better it is.
Guest
(Querist) 24 April 2016
wat kind of case can be filed against him for the threatening message he sends? its not the first time he s threatening me.
Prakash Ramchandani
(Expert) 25 April 2016
dear supriya.
you are being harrassed by whom is not clear because youhave mentioned only words.
just to say that you are harrassed can not be claimed to be harrassed
first of all collect the facts put on your record second dont take any step immediately to file any compalin
because good complain can be filed only after you have tried level best
first you have to try for settlement
or you wait and watch do not reply
and when you dont reply then the opponent will either take wrong action or will see what is happening
you shall also try to settle personally with you hubby through your very confident person
lastly i will suggest when you shall not take more tention because you are carrying a child which will be effected
and wait for the result and when you definately acarry a child then you ask the husband in written that whether you shall drop the child or shall go on furhter because if the child comes it will be the double liabiltyof husband to take care the wife and child may be boy or girl
i think your husband will definetly reply in that case and that will save you or will make you clear for furhter action
still you shall contact experts knowledge by putting my views
Prakash Ramchandani
(Expert) 25 April 2016
supriyaji
the above reply was put ,, looking the situations
you shall wait if you dont carry more child..
rest.. ok
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 25 April 2016
I am not sure why do you still want your tormenting husband back.
However it is your choice and to get him back you have to take your personal effort as law can not fetch your husband.
I would suggest you to meet him and person and resolve your disputes.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 25 April 2016
If you want to continue with the marriage, take help of relatives, family friends, effective people of the society and try your luck.
