My husband and in-laws cheated me, what should i do?
Shalu
(Querist) 21 May 2012
This query is : Resolved
Hello Madam/Sir,
I need your precious advise, ours is an arrange marriage,our marriage has done under Hindu Marriage act and that was lavisly done, my parents gave each and everything on my marrige, they spent their savings on my marriage, they completed all the demands of my husband and in laws.
As I Married in March 2010,My husband started doing bad behaviour after six months i.e Sep 2010,he started rebuking and using bad language for me, on initial stage for me i ignored, our house was on Fourth floor and having terrace,my husband used to go on to terrace and drink and busy in calling to his friends(Girl)at night on weekends (He did night shift)he did not have time for me ,We have never been in relation from the date of our marriage.he threatened me to throw me out from the terrace.I told this thing to my Mother-in law at the very next day,she told me that she would talk to him, but she did not.
As the time passes, situation became more worst.Before Marriage he told me that he is Delhi University graduate, but one day i found his degree which is from Lucknow university (means he made false statement before marriage).
My husband always remained out of house on Saturdays and sundays.Not spent time with me.
from the initial months of my marriage, i
gave my salary to my mother in law.as the time passes, she became demanding as (there was wood work at our home in Sep 2010, i spent,bought new refrigerator in Oct-2010, My husband wanted to buy new car, she demanded me to buy and pay EMIs , we bought a new car in Mar-2011). But my husabnd and my relation was in bad situation.
After knowing this fact, that my husband and my relations are not sound (as he started arguments with me in front of the family members), my Mother in law, Father in law and my sister in law (Married near to our house) started planning to sell the house, they pressurized us to leave the house and advised us to start living on rented house.
My husband used to drink and smoke excessive, and now my mother in law and sister in law started teach him many bad things against me.
They created a situation so worse, i left the house and came to my parent's house empty handed.All my gold and clothes are still with them.because i had no intention for divorce, i thought my husband will be with me one day.
After pushing out of the house, they sold the house without intimating me and my family.
My husband resigned from his job and absconding.he is doing nothing, this just because not to give anything to me.
Now my in laws did not talk to me and they don't want to give me anything.
My husband ruined my life.i want Justice!!!
Please advise..
Thanks and Regards
ajay sethi
(Expert) 21 May 2012
1) file complaint against husband under 49 8 A for dowry harrasment .
2) file complaint under Domestic violence act claim maintenance . etc
Shalu
(Querist) 21 May 2012
thanks for reply!!!
Can i get home from my in laws side to live as they sold the house.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 21 May 2012
as wife your right under DV act is against husbnad for right to stay in shared household or alternative accomodation not against in laws
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 21 May 2012
In DV all your rights accrue from your husband.
However, if that is the matrimonial home, you can get right of residence in the same.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
Shalu
(Querist) 07 June 2012
Respected Madam/Sir
As My Mother in law and Father in law cheated me and pressurised me to leave the house and after pushing out of the house they sold the same.
Now they are saying that that was your husband's parents's property, you cannot get from us anything, talk to your husband (he left the job deliberately, so that he can claim on me). THEY PEOPLE ARE MISUSING THE LAW.Please advise!!They already planned everthing before marriage.Now they are in Himachal Pradesh.
Shalu
(Querist) 07 June 2012
My husband is with them in Himachal Pradesh. He is doing nothing.they not allowed him to stay with me.They are convincing me to take the divorce.Actually now they know that my husband is impotent.
What should i do? they made me fool in every manner.
Shalu
(Querist) 07 June 2012
After went to Himachal Pradesh they never came back once to talk to my parents,even if there would be divorce it would be on Mutual consent, but they are not coming once to settle down this.
