Need avice on divorce
Gaurav
(Querist) 04 June 2013
This query is : Resolved
I Have Been married since 4 years now and have no kids. Wife is a bit suspicious character and always doubts my character. She falsely accuses me and my mom of allegations like we dont give her food, dont give her room keys and ration card, my mother has torn all her new clothes, etc. All baseless allegations and to make her point strong now she has started taking pics of empty vessels at our kitchen and started sharing it with our colony members stating that she does not get food at our place and my mom hides food from her so she orders tiffin service at home. (she is currently staying with me at my moms house). Recently she has started recording sound bytes on her phone and keeps the main door open and hits me and then starts shouting that "STOP HITTING ME, then she will go outside the house sit on the staircase and start crying" ... trespassers passing by would not know this they observe her behavior.She has tarnished my image in the whole society and even with my relatives she goes to their place and tell them all this false stories. i also have some of her statements recorded which says "i will take you to police and they will hit you... you sleep with your mother.... i have caught her red handed... u have an affair..." also i have her sms records which states "i will take you to police and i will not give you divorce and leave my matrimonial house... you people hit me threat me and abuse me i wont leave my matrimonial house in any case"... In the year 2011 i had submitted a letter to my resident police station informing about all this... also my mother has submitted a letter in the station in 2013 regarding all this but we have not made a formal complaint as we are scared of the judicial and society system and our relatives too.. On the basis of her threatening messages i had also filled for an anticipatory bail which got rejected in jun 2012 on account of no FIR and we were called for a mediatory session which we both dint attend becoz of family pressure. Now i want to end this marriage and need to take her out of my mothers house as she is a threat to me and my family and can take drastic steps which i endanger
and foresee and she has already sent me threatening sms on the same. She has visited Mahila mukti sangh at churchgate and put a complaint against me and my family and also she has visited the commissioners office at crowford market and submitted a letter there which has reached my area police station but they have not actioned on it because they know we had been to them a couple of times with our story. Please advice at the earliest as to what should be my next step and give me judicial guidance and procedure too...\
please suggest steps on getting rid of my wife and throwing her out of my house and life legally. i have decided to go for divorce please suggest immediate actions.
Regards
Nadeem Qureshi
(Expert) 04 June 2013
Dear Gaurav
you should consult with a lawyer in your area
Gaurav
(Querist) 05 June 2013
Can u please help me with some experienced Female lawyer in mumbai whom i can consult and take my case forward. Someone who has fought for Male side and won in the past.
Awaiting your reply.
regards
Gaurav
ajay sethi
(Expert) 05 June 2013
1) she is your lawfully wdded wife you cant throw her out on the streets .
2) you have not mentioned who is the owner of flat wherein you are residing .
3) convice your wife to consult a psychiatrist .
4) visit a marriage counsellor to resolve your problems
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 05 June 2013
You may consult your in-laws for her indifferent attitude and for counseling her in the matter. You may take her to mediator and psychiatrist with their help.If possible move in a flat near to or with your in-laws and this may help you a bit in future complaints u/s 498 and others from her. Views of expert Sh. Ajay Sethi are valuable. To prevent future troubles to your mother and family, you may have to live separate from your mother for some time.
bhagwat patil
(Expert) 06 June 2013
It is very delicate issue you have discuss influential people of your caste relatives of in laws so also Mahila mukti sangh will help in mediating the peaceful solution. Though you want to get rid of her by divorce you have to be diplomatic and accept her terms.
