Need guidance pls help me!
Suman Sarkar
(Querist) 15 July 2014
This query is : Resolved
Hello Sir,
I had a relationship with a brahmin girl for the past 3.5 years. Even we work at same place. Our relationship was so mature and we were ready to marry each other. But one day suddenly when my girl friend approaches about me to her family they denied to accept our relation because of caste problem. They pressurises their daughter to marry some other guy. They dont want to admit our relation as if there was nothing between us. But I can prove that I had a relation with their daughter. what to do I dont know. How can we be married please suggest me sir..
ADV-JEEVAN PATIL, MUMBAI
(Expert) 16 July 2014
If 21 n 18 yes go ahead fort court marriage unless married previously either of u.
G. ARAVINTHAN
(Expert) 16 July 2014
If you and that girl are ready to contract marriage, then better can register marriage under Hindu Marriage Act( As you both were Hindus). Dont go to prove the relationship between you and that girl as it may spoil both the lives
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 16 July 2014
Get married.. .........................
ajay sethi
(Expert) 16 July 2014
if girl refuses to marry you under family pressure forget her and move on in life
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 16 July 2014
If the girl want to marry, proceed and if she hesitate, better forget her like a past dream.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 16 July 2014
Have you contacted your girl-friend after her disclosure before her parents regarding her affair with you? If yes, What is the outcome? What has she decided? Are you (and your family)ready and willing to accept her as your wife, lookafter and maintain her with dignity and respect in your family?
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 16 July 2014
Proving having relationship is not sufficient for you if your partner is not ready to run this partnership further more being a maried couple.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 17 July 2014
You cannot force her to marry if she is not willing to marry you, her parents cannot force her to leave the relationship f she is adult and stubborn enough about the mutual decision to get married. Now analyse where your vehicle has got struck.
