need of advice to my brothers -wife problem
vivek
(Querist) 03 February 2011
This query is : Resolved
sir/madam,
my brother had got married to a IT girl in chennai.
with in 3months there occurs a problem between them and they are now in court.
my brother had applied for restitution to the court,but she is not interested in living with my brother and she asks for divorcee.
and as per the court counsellors,we were adviced to give her articles and she should provide our articles,and we had provided a list of her articles with us,but she had provide an amount of 3 lakhs as marriage expense in the article list,so problem occurs here as we were sayong that we too have marriage expenses.
so atleast four times we had went to court for this problem,but we had applied for restitution only.
we dont no what to do.
to note we are roman catholic and her wife is CSI.
PLEASE PROVIDE ME DETAILS.
VIVEK

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(Expert) 04 February 2011
Dear Vivek,
Compromise is the best solution to avoid tension and disturbance of peace of mind. Egoistic attitude on any side or insistence of refund of paisa-by-paisa expenditure can add fuel to the fire. Incidental expenses, which have been incurred in consumables, eatables, transportation, etc,. can neither be calculated, nor refunded by any party. Both the parties are likely to lose much more in the shape of heavy expenditure likely to be incurred by dragging of the litigation further with rigid and egoistic attitude of any of the parties.