please help me from my wife
Bittu
(Querist) 15 April 2010
This query is : Resolved
I have marriage on 2005, this was arranged marriage. My father-in-law is very rich man, and my wife is his only child. After marriage, he always forced me to do this to do that. I never opposed him. My father-in-law and my wife then started new demand. Demand is, I have to stay in my father-in-law’s hose. This was first time I opposed them. As a result, on 2007 my wife left my house. So many times I went to father-in-law’s house to return my wife, but she never come. I told them it is never possible to stay their house because of my parent. They both are aged, except me nobody is there in my house who will take care.
But she didn’t care my problem. Since 2.9 years, see never receive my phone, I can’t even contact with her. Her father told me she does want to meet with you and she will never marriage again and she does not divorce you.
Now please tell what to do?? I am 35 years old. If I go for divorce file, the how much time it will take?
R.R. KRISHNAA
(Expert) 15 April 2010
Take the help of elders of your community and approach your wife's family for ending the relationship by way of mutual consent divorce.
Guest
(Expert) 15 April 2010
You can file divorce if you want on the ground of "Desertion". So you don't need to pay maintenance also.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 15 April 2010
Instead of filing divorce petition and opening pendora of problems for you, I advise you to file RCR.
mahendrakumar
(Expert) 15 April 2010
How easily we suggest "divorce"?
His wife is the only child of his father in law.
couldn't he think of some amicable solution like all of them including his parents staying together? where there is a will,there is a way.
the sad part is people are lacking this essential "will" nowadays.
niranjan
(Expert) 15 April 2010
As advisedby Mr. Makkad,file RCR petition and only then they will sit with you for compromise.
Guest
(Expert) 17 April 2010
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