Seeking divorce mcd or dessertation
Kamal
(Querist) 02 March 2014
This query is : Resolved
Hello Experts,
I was married on April 29, 2013. after 2 months of marriage i discovered my wife has epilepsy and non-cancer tumour (can be cured in duration 36-48 months).
She use to get fits attack 2-3 times a week and some times she becomes violent.
Nothing such was told to me from her side/parents on these. upon discussion they said "there as nothing such, and would have happened after marriage" which is medically not possible.
her brother took her back to home for some festival in october for 5-6 days. Now they are not letting her come back saying she is not well and will send her after she gets cured fully. And they are also not letting me to talk her or meet her.
Now my in-law wants me to stay separate from my parents and then only they will send back my wife.
And they have convinced my wife for this and now she also want to live separate.
For Epilepsy my in-laws are saying, she is not epileptic (i have positive reports for epilepsy n tumour), its just tension thing as living with your parents.
And sometimes they say they can keep their daughter for life time.
my in-laws used to fight with my parents over phone 3-4 times every week.
I am afraid if they can file dowry or such case if i File divorce.
How can i get divorce in this case? As when my wife cannot stand with me in my good and bad what should i do in this case?
Marriage is not registered till now, as we are were busy in these things.
things are getting worse and has become topic of tension for us from last few months. Is there any way to get rid of these sooner ? My marriage will complete one year in april 29 2014. so its months from now.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 02 March 2014
Prioritise your preference.
If you want her back then file a suit for restitution of conjugal rights.
Otherwise negotiate with them and try to go for mutual divorce.
If it fails then file divorce suit but do not sit idle doing nothing.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 02 March 2014
if you dont want to stay separate from parents file for divorce . however please note that merely because she is suffering from epilepsey is no grounds for divorce
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 02 March 2014
Life after taking legal steps would not be easy. you may have to face cases of dowry, DV Act, maintenance etc. You would be spending a lot in all these cases and would have to spare a lot of time for court. It may take years for final decision.
Try for amicable solution. Take help of family friends of both sides.
May try mutual consent divorce if not possible to live to-gather.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 02 March 2014
what you want is important.
State your choice..
Do u love her and lead happy married life???
or
or
Then we can suggest the way out....
After all, it is ur life/ ur wife..
We can guide, as per your choice..
Kamal
(Querist) 03 March 2014
I love her and want her back. but if I go for RCR, she can refuse on medical grounds of epilepsy. ANd more imp they can file a fake dowry case.
Nadeem Qureshi
(Expert) 04 March 2014
RCR is best option, this apprehension will be continue till the divorce decree, but when you filed RCR then if she filed any case this case will not be strong and RCR will be your best defense
