Threats from fiancee

Mayank (Querist) 30 April 2014 This query is : Resolved
Dear Lawyers
I am based out of Delhi and in a committed relationship for almost two years having been engaged with the girl in October 2013.

Starting from the first few days of my relation I have noticed some abnormal activities (like being physically and verbally violent due to any XYZ trigger reason etc.) at my girl friend's end though the level of complications she has especially created in the recent past have made my life a mess.

She forces me to accept her unreasonable demands of money, leaving my parents and friends, doing whatever she wants me to do, live in relationship etc. and in case I do not do so, she threatens me of committing suicide or damaging me and my parents. For the past few months, she has started sending me and my parents threatening pictures like consuming allout, baygon, cutting her hand etc. Though such instances have always happened, last few months have been even more terrible.

I have always reported every abnormal activity to her mother though was confronted with reasons such as - her 'grahas' are slightly disturbed and we are getting all worships done or you must be doing something wrong with her etc.

I also took her to a couple of Pychiatrists who diagnosed her with Depression and last week took her for counselling as well; however she did not agree to take further help and continued threatening me.

She is also threatening me of false rape attempts and says that she will make me and my family pay as we both were in physical relationship too (have everything documented)

Please advise me of what legal options do I have in order to stop any undue hassle that she might create in future.

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MT

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ajay sethi (Expert) 30 April 2014
1) record her conversations .

2) it was consensual relation ship .

3) keep all reports of psychiatrist wherein she has been diagnosed as suffering from depression

ajay sethi (Expert) 30 April 2014
inform her that on account of her constant threats of committing suicide there is no future in your relation ship . no case of rape is made out

Mayank (Querist) 30 April 2014
Thanks Ajay.
Her actions are getting worst every single day. She called up my office a few days back and has been sending obsolete, threatening messages to my parents and friends which has made al of us little scared.

I have strictly asked her to leave her violent means but it has not done any good till now. How do I get over with this. Is there something like a restraining order or some petition which I can file in order to end this torture.
Please guide me with the legal options available as I do not see a future of this relationship. Thanks

ajay sethi (Expert) 30 April 2014
1) dont delete any messages .

2) file police complaint against her if threats continue .

3) break off your relation ship .

40 contact a local lawyer

Mayank (Querist) 30 April 2014
Thanks Ajay...appreciate your help.

Guest (Expert) 30 April 2014
The case seems to be getting quite serious day in and day out. So, you need to take consultation from some local expert after taking appointment for personal consultancy for detailed discussions on the issues. Failing which you can expect your life to be hell.

Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 30 April 2014
Agree with the advise of expert PS Dhingra ji, have continuous consultancy and guidance of some local expert.

Signs are not good as explained by you.

Sankaranarayanan (Expert) 30 April 2014
i do agreed with my experts advise, better to approach local lawyer and file a complaint to police with all matter

T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Expert) 01 May 2014
Yes as advised by experts, before the things are getting out of control, immediately consult a local advocate and proceed as per his advise, take a second opinion too if there is a necessity.

Mayank (Querist) 01 May 2014
Dear all..thanks for your responses. I am sure the forum will be able to provide me some local contacts whom i can approach here in delhi and take police action with his/her help. Thanks

ajay sethi (Expert) 01 May 2014
thanks for your appreciation . search in LCI data base for lawyers from Delhi

V R SHROFF (Expert) 01 May 2014
lodge police complaint, and act as advised by Shri Sethi , Shri T K , Shri Dhingra .
Act fast, or she may file dangerous criminal cases against you.
Inform her & cut off relationship.

Luckily u did not marry her!!

malipeddi jaggarao (Expert) 01 May 2014
Agreed with all experts. Simply ignore her after lodging the complaint with police. You do not have any legal or moral duty towards such a girl.

Mayank (Querist) 09 May 2014
Deal all,
I have consulted an eminent lawyer who is first getting an anticipatory bail applied and then will direct me for a police complaint.

Is there also something like a restraining order or an annulment of engagement etc. in India like they do generally have in foreign countries?

I will take advice from my lawyer on this as well but thought of seeking a conclusive advice from the forum on the proceedings.

Thanks.

Mayank (Querist) 09 May 2014
Just to add on here, the girl is not yet informed that I am taking legal opinion on the matter and has been apologetic for the last few days accepting it to be her fault and unacceptable behaviour.

Just don't want to take any sort of chances. Thanks

V R SHROFF (Expert) 09 May 2014
Let ur eminent lawyer proceed the matter, u only follow his instn.

Mayank (Querist) 09 May 2014
Sure Sir. Thanks

T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Expert) 09 May 2014
There is no such thing called as annulment of engagement as per the Indian laws. You may follow the advises of your lawyer, but in my opinion, taking an anticipatory bail so early is a waste exercise, especially in the event of she not having initiated any legal action against you. The sudden changes in her behavior with you cannot be taken for granted for her attitudinal change,you got to be very careful especially if she showers love and affection on you without any reason, a change in her behavior or attitude cannot come overnight, it is a sort of phobia or inborn quality, thus it is better that you sever all your ties with her at this stage itself.

Mayank (Querist) 10 May 2014
Absolutely agree with you adv Kaliselvan, this seems to be another trap that she has laid to harass me further. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

V R SHROFF (Expert) 10 May 2014
Better to keep away from such GIRLS
Greedy of money, Enjoy at your cost, harass u at your cost, and demand huge amount to go away.. Boy looses money & all, no effect on such business minded Girls.
Cases of Black-mailing, threats are on increase, alarming. So be cautious before such relationship.

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