Want to stay with my husband
sutapa sarkar
(Querist) 22 April 2016
This query is : Resolved
I am 31yrs old govt employee. We married 2yrs ago. After that i used to live with my mother as she is widow and no where to go. My husband used to come at my house only at night. But during the last 1 year, i felt that my husband is ignoring me, he began to pick up quarrel on a small issue, started to use abusive words to me. 2 months ago on 11th Feb. he picked up a quarrel and left my house permanently, till then i called him several times, sent him msgs, but he neither picked the phone nor gave any ans of my msgs. I told him that i want to stay with him...even i am agreed to stay with my in-laws. But he is ignoring me, he said he is not interested in me anymore, he says that i am a psycho...i have to go to psychiatrist to prove tht i am mentally fit. I said that i am agreed to consult a psychiatrist to prove that i am fit. But now my husband has came to the point tht he is not agreed to lead a conjugal relation with me anymore. He is unable to show any proper reason for it, but he just dont want me as his wife. What should i do? He has not made any divorce petition till now, bcoz he has no proper ground
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 23 April 2016
It seems he dislike you reside with your mother.
You go and start reside with him with his parents.
YOU CAN FILE RCR PETITION.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 23 April 2016
Take help of elders of both side, family friends, effective people of the society.
You can enter into the house of your in-laws and start living there.
A. A. JOSE
(Expert) 23 April 2016
Perhaps the initial cause for his distancing from you might have been your insistance to continue to stay with your mother. Now that you are ready to stay with him/in-laws, perhaps, the suggestion given by Mr.Rajendra K.Goyal may help you. However, if inspite of that, your husband is not positively responding, you may have to move for legal remedies in consultation with a local Lawyer.
sutapa sarkar
(Querist) 23 April 2016
Elders of my side and my friends tried a lot to solve the problem. But my in-laws are denying to talk with them. Even they are not picking up the phone when my elders are calling them. They are totally ignoring us and they are not ready to come to a solution. Again my mother-in-law is the legal owner of my in-laws house and she is not agreed to accept me as a member of their family. And my husband will not leave their house. In that case can i enter their house without their consent?
