What notice to be send
ADHIK KUMAR T PATOLE
(Querist) 09 July 2013
This query is : Resolved
I GOT MARRIED 3AND1/2YRBACK.MY WIFE FREQUENTLY DESERT ME 1 WEEK ,11MONTHS AND THIS time 1 YRS i.e 6jul2012 to 2013.SHE , MY FIL AND BIL'S DEMAND TO PURCHASE NEW HOUSE OR GO FOR RENT BECAUSE THEY AND MY WIFE DOESNT LIKE THE PLACE WHERE I M LIVING AWAY FROM AHMEDNAGAR CITY- APPROX 4K.M AWAY.MY WIFE IS FROM PUNE AND I AM STAYING IN AHMEDNAGAR-M.S
MY FIL AND BIL'S KEPT HER AT THERE HOME SINCE I YEAR.THEY ARE STUBBORN IN THIER DEMAND.WHEN ASK TO HER AND HER FAMILY ABOUT COMING TO MY HOUSE THEY JUST SAY NO. REGARDING THIS I TOOK MATTER TO MAHILA TAKRAR OFFICE IN AHMEDNAGAR.THERE ALSO MY WIFE'S FAMILY AND EVEN SHE TOO PUTTING THE SAME CONDITION.3-4 TIME THEY HAVE BEEN CALLED UP AT OFFICE TO RESOLVE THE MATTER BUT THEY AND SHE JUST SAY NO. I EVEN WENT TO HER HOME WITH ELDER PEOPLE BUT ALL IN VAIN.I AM ONLY SON OF MY PARENTS WHO ARE ABOVE 60YRS.I AM UNABLE TO GO FOR SEPARATION INDIRECLTY CONDITION FORWARDED TO ME BECAUSE THERE IS NO ONE TO LOOK AFTER MY PARENTS ALSO WITH THIS I AM NOT FINANCIAL STRONG TO PURCHASE NEW HOUSEE IN AHMEDNAGAR CITY.PRESENTLY I M HAVING OUR OWN HOUSE.ALONG WITH THIS RIGHT FORM BEGINGING WHENEVER SHE GOES TO PARENTS HOME PUNE I USED TO GIVE MONEY .BECAUSW OF HER FREQUENT VIST I OPENED HER SBI A/C SO THAT SHE COULD WITHDRAW MONEY BY ATM IN PUNE.NOW SHE IS AWAY FOR COMPLETE 1 YRS HER A/C HAS BECAME DORMANT.NOW I AM SENDING HER MONTHLY AMOUNT BY MONEY ORDER ON HER PARENTS HOME ADDRESS.SOMETIME SHE ACCEPT OR REJECT.I EVEN TRY TO CALL SHE Has CHANGED THE NUMBER.BECAUSE OF THIS I SEND HER AIRTEL SIM CARD REGISTERED ON MY NAME.BUT SHE IS NOT USING THAT.SHE HAS SWITCHED OFF HER MOBILE ON GUIDANCE FOR HER PARENTS AND BROTHER.SHE IS UNDER INFLUENCED BY HER BROTHERS AND PARENTS. WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW.WHICH NOTICE SHOULD I SEND TO HER.PLEASE GUIDE ME IN THIS MATTER.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 09 July 2013
Seeing your seriousness to get back you wife, i would strongly recommend you to file case for restitution of conjugal rights.'Whether she accepts or or not, do send her money regularly. It would help you greatly in the long run.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 10 July 2013
Your wife seems to be adamant for not coming back in the present situation. You have the choice either to choose your old parents, who also need you, or your wife who is not ready to adjust at all.
In my view keep quite or file petition of Restitution of Conjugal Rights, if she don't try to honor your sentiments, stop sending her money or mobile calls. Wait and watch is the better policy in present situation. She will never owner your sentiments till you go after her.
Dr. Jyothi Vishwanath
(Expert) 13 July 2013
Dont run after her.
Be silent for few months.
She will get back into her senses and search you.
