Wife attempted suicide fortunately she is out of danger.
Ram chandra
(Querist) 18 February 2016
This query is : Resolved
Hello Sir,
We got married in 2010. My parents live in their home town. My wife has good knowledge, educated but has suicidal tendencies.
She is hyper sensitive/hyper anger, in very small discussions also she argues a lot with me, gets extreme anger and cries with no control, she can't control her emotions.
Recently due to lack of sleep, kids health problems (fever etc) she got depression out of control, refused to go counseling, I spoke to her mom and brother regarding her tendency and requested them to motivate her and to take both of us to counselling center but they did not take any step further even though they knew that she is hyper sensitive.
Now she attempted suicide by drinking acid and hospitalized, her condition is normal and doctor told she is out of danger. Doctor told me consult psychiatrist after cure.
We have 2 kids (son 4yrs, daughter 2 yrs)
My wife with kids went to her parents home to take rest for few days.Her health is good now. Its almost 1 month now, i have been requesting them to come for counseling, her father is not agreeing to send family counseling and not ready to send her back without discussing in gentlemen(nearest relatives). He certifies that I am good and did't harm her but again asks me why she attempted suicide, they are trying to make up.
As per my knowledge it is a very sensitive issue, discussing in gentlemen can't address the actual problem. Because of this delay her mental condition may get worse. she is also worrying that my kid is missing school. she is also forcing me to discuss in gentlemen, but there If I directly point out her behavioral/psychological problems she can't accept and gets out of control.
How to bring them for family counseling center?
Please help me how to handle the situation.
Even now at least what are precautionary steps I have to take to protect myself & parents now and in future.
Sir, please help me.
Santosh Goswami,Advocate
(Expert) 18 February 2016
Dear Ram
Since there is no criminal complaint of cruelty or dowry demands as of now, nothing to be worried. For the time being, it can not be established that attempted suicide was an offshoot of cruelty heaped by you. Right now, go there once for their satisfaction and for your defense as well and see what happens. There are ways to explore the defenses, but its very difficult to give u all the detail herein.
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Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 19 February 2016
Try to have matter settled amicably with the help of relatives, nears and dears and society effective people.
