Wife threatned suicide once and short temper..now wants to rejoin
joy
(Querist) 31 October 2015
This query is : Resolved
I got married on April, 2015
Since day one she used to throw tantrum about how she can’t adjust to the new environment and doesn’t like the way I am. In May, 2015she went to her parents place. I went to take her back in June, 2015. She fights for small matters i.e. coming hair, which colour of shirt I should wear, I should call her when I leave office and call back every time she gives me missed call. Due to her hot temper problem, she doesn’t have control on her emotions and used to go to her relatives place every now and then. She stayed roughly 2 months in our home.
Her relatives make her understand many times to adjust and live good life but she is adamant. Now in mid-July, 2015 when her relative come to our home they revealed that my wife threatened them to commit suicide if they don’t listen to her. After hearing this, we all family members are scared for our life if in case anything goes wrong.
After her relative left, she stopped eating and won’t talk to anyone. She dismantled her phone so that no one can call her to calm her down from her parent’s side. So I called her brother to talk to her, he took her to their place for a week. After that her parents came and took her to their place.
Now after 3 months, all the person from in laws side accusing us of bad treatment to her and calling to take her back to our home otherwise they will take legal action against us. Me and my family is going through really tough time and not able to find the cure.
1. What remedy I have to safeguard my family from such threats?
2. What If I take her back and she does something nasty to harass me and my parents.
3. I am living with my parents and siblings under one roof.
4. She has made tons of accusations ranging from unnatural sex, not being given food, not given money to spend, torture and many more.
5. Her father says that give one chance and forget everything ? Can I trust him ?
I request your help to decide on above.
Thank You
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 31 October 2015
Better give her a chance and see if she changes herself.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 01 November 2015
She seems to be short tempered and dominating, if she agrees have counseling from psychrist.
Any preventive measure hardly work as law is favoring woman.
Try to adjust so that she adjust later after being familiar.
joy
(Querist) 16 March 2016
Thank you all the experts. Here I am with FIR copy in hand of 498A, 323, 506(2), 114, DP 3 and 7 Act.
I knew it that she and here parents will do it now or later. They are whole bunch of liars. To add, police are knowingly filing FIR to trap innocent peoples.
No place for man in India. Believe me.
I appreciate your help and will seek further guidance since I have decided to fight the case because she has put my parents also in this ongoing mess of my marital dispute.
Thanks once again.
